IDCheaters

There Has To Be Trust In A Relationship

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 16:58:02 +0000

POSTED BY MIKE – A READER CONTRIBUTED STORY

I had clues that my gf was not happy with us. But she refuses to communicate with me so I have no way of knowing what’s going on. So I did a bad. I hacked her Facebook and found this letter she had written to an old flame. It was harmless for the most part other than her saying she was “elated and overjoyed” that he had found her and that she excercises daily at this specific beach and that she would love it if he stopped into her work to see her. Commented a couple times on how nice he looked and had taken good care of himself.

So now what. I’m drama free and she’s killin that plan. She’s mad because I haven’t popped the question….but how can I when there’s no trust and I find letters like this?!!?!?!

Advice? If I bring it up it’s going to be ugly because I did hack into her Facebook. I do feel bad there but I would feel worse if I hadn’t have found the letter……

His Plan: Confront my partner

Long Distance Relationship Up To No Good?

Imaginary Diva — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 16:13:53 +0000

POSTED BY JOEY – A READER CONTRIBUTED STORY

For the past 10 months iv been in a long distance relationship. I tend to visit ever 2 months(because my work permits this) or so and she comes for a week when she cant get off work.

It had been going great for last 8 months, we spoke to each other every day via skype and when we were together she always tells me how much she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I always felt confident, never paranoid or jealous.

She’s a dancer in a troup so she tends to go to different countries for periods of time, sometimes up to a month (we still keep in contact via skype,sms tele etc) .

Last august when i visited i was alone at her house since she had to go do her nails. I saw her camera and went through the pictures (nothing wrong right ?) well the funny thing was 80% of the photos she had was a guy (who works with her) holding her. The same guy in each photo. I was so shocked, my heart pounded with rage! I called her and told her to get her ass home because we need to speak. I could barley speak myself with the anger!

When she came home and i confronted her about it. I told her if there is something going on tell me now so i can stop wasting my time and money to see her. She burst into tears because i threatened to leave, she told me that he is just a friend and she wants to be with me bla bla bla bla bla bla bla. I accepted that BUT from then on iv been careful, paranoid and jealous.

That was two months ago, since then she seems to have lost interest in me, she doesnt say i love you much, shes always typing when were on skype etc.

Last week on thursday i was speaking with her on skype, i noticed that she wasnt much interested on what i was saying, again she kept typing something. I got mad, but i didnt show it (im very good in hiding my feelings). I got so paranoid at this time that i decided to log in to her facebook account, something that i have never done because i respect privacy, but the pain in my chest got the better of me.

To my “surprise” ( because deeeeeeeep down i knew it, i get good hunches) There was a msg from him saying something like “i miss you my kitten” and her replying saying “i miss you also bunny” and another message from him saying “i want to kiss you”. She also told me that she had a birthday party of some guy the next day (his birthday) I closed my browser deleted her password (so i would not go in again) and told her i had to leave skype and sleep.

I count sleep all night ! Felt shit the next day. I didnt even go to work the next day.

I didnt confront her about it because i wanted to wait to meet her face to face. I had payed for a flight which will be next sunday (ill be staying there for 17 days)

From then on she’s been “normal” still texting me and still speaking with me. But something seems so wrong and I want to find out.

DEEP DOWN I KNOW SHES DONE SOMETHING BUT !
1. I WANT HER TO SAY IT TO ME
2. WHEN SHES SWEET WITH ME I “FEEL” LIKE EVERYTHING IS ALLRIGHT 3. IM THINKING OF GIVING HER A GOOD TIME AND TELL HER THAT SHE CAN FUCK OFF AT THE END OF MY “HOLIDAY”

What u guys think ?

P.S
She doesnt live in my country so i had to translate the msg.

Joey’s Plan: Revenge

Never Date Your Ex After The Divorce

Imaginary Diva — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 16:29:02 +0000

POSTED BY ANGEL – A READER CONTRIBUTED STORY

I have been married for 7 years. I found out that my husband was cheating on me. I filed for divorce and in the mean time of waiting for everything to go through, I found out the other woman is pregnant. My husband says he does not love her and does not want to be with her. I says I am still number one and he will never love no one but me. After the divorce, he still want to go to the movies and have dinner every now and then. Do you think he will continue to sleep with her after the baby is born? Remind you this is the only man I have been with. We have been together for 15 years.

Your Plan: Confront my partner

Advice For Others: If the baby need something, he will bring it and when she open the door she will be naked and will tease him to give him. never date your ex husband after a divorce.

Moving On and Letting Go

Imaginary Diva — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 16:18:59 +0000

POSTED BY LACY – A READER CONTRIBUTED STORY

My husband and I have been married 15 years and together for a total of 20 years. Throughout our marriage he has had numerous affairs, and I always chose to forgive him. His latest affair is with a girl 20 years younger (27) than him with children from different men. He is 47. She is a co-worker and has qualities that he has always said he didn’t want. He told me several times that he ended the affair and wanted me and to attend counseling; however, he has now left me for her since I found yet another hidden cell phone, and said it is because she shows him love, affection and has a lot of different sexual moves that he likes. Then calls me to tell me he is staying in a hotel and I know he is lying.

Then tells me that he will be faithful to her because he really loves her.

I know our marriage is over, but I am having difficulty letting go. My first meeting with a divorce recovery group is next week.

Your Plan: Leave my relationship

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Imaginary Diva — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 16:47:52 +0000

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Do all What You Can Do To Save Your Marriage

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 16:46:37 +0000

POSTED BY JOAN – A READER CONTRIBUTED STORY

My husband and i had a fight before and i said things that make his change his mind and forget all his feelings for me..i said to him that i regret that he is my husband and the father of my son…but i did not meant it…i said that because he always scold me and said things that kinda hurt me badly…then lately i found out that he cheated..i asked him why he cheated and he answered “you regret being with me so i looked for someone who will not regret being with me”….is it a valid reason why he cheat? before the girl came we were fine even though we had a fight..it got worst when she came into our lives…and the girl had a son with his previous partner…i had heard that she was his girlfriend before but my husband did not told me about her because he made me believed that i am his first love and first girlfriend…and lately i saw his text messages to the girl saying i love you to her…do you think he really love the girl?or me?he told me that he dont love me anymore and he already forget me…how can he forget me we’ve been 8 yrs and his affair with another is least than a year…do you think he still love me?i want him back…pls help me….we have a 2 year old baby…i want to save my family…

Her Plan: Work it out

Advice For Others: do all what you can do to save your marriage and family…

Is Your Tongue Kissable?

Imaginary Diva — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:52:16 +0000

He Runs To His Ex For Advice On His Marriage

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:57:08 +0000

POSTED BY SUE – A READER CONTRIBUTED STORY

my husband and i have been having turst issue for years . lst mnth we almost divorced. yesterday i had a sneaky suspiosion about an old girlfriend and decided to investigate. Come to find out the old girlfriend told me by way of email that they have been in contact for a month. i decided to confront him , and he lied saying that she contacted him and that they are just friends. come to find out , when we were having martial problems , he contacted her to talk about me. i told him that it was cheating , hesays that is is not, that they are just friends. in my book , if you are married and you contact an old girlfriend it is cheating . he says its not , who is right.? i have not be able to truyst him for five years , since i founf porn on the computer and he lied baout that , and was sneaky. this just brings the a whole differnet trust issue to light . how can i turst a man that runs to an ex- girlfriend , when him adn his wife is figthing. we have been together! 18 years . i am staying in the marriage for my kids , but emtionlally i am drained , and hurt that he would have the balls to contact and old girlfriend , when he is married . am i being too jealous ?? thanks to responds . sue walkervacaville @earthlink.net

Sue’s Plan: Confront my partner,Work it out,Leave my relationship

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Imaginary Diva — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 16:44:56 +0000

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