I had clues that my gf was not happy with us. But she refuses to communicate with me so I have no way of knowing what’s going on. So I did a bad. I hacked her Facebook and found this letter she had written to an old flame. It was harmless for the most part other than her saying she was “elated and overjoyed” that he had found her and that she excercises daily at this specific beach and that she would love it if he stopped into her work to see her. Commented a couple times on how nice he looked and had taken good care of himself.

So now what. I’m drama free and she’s killin that plan. She’s mad because I haven’t popped the question….but how can I when there’s no trust and I find letters like this?!!?!?!

For the past 10 months iv been in a long distance relationship. I tend to visit ever 2 months(because my work permits this) or so and she comes for a week when she cant get off work.

It had been going great for last 8 months, we spoke to each other every day via skype and when we were together she always tells me how much she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me. I always felt confident, never paranoid or jealous.

I have been married for 7 years. I found out that my husband was cheating on me. I filed for divorce and in the mean time of waiting for everything to go through, I found out the other woman is pregnant. My husband says he does not love her and does not want to be with her. I says I am still number one and he will never love no one but me.

After the divorce, he still want to go to the movies and have dinner every now and then. Do you think he will continue to sleep with her after the baby is born? Remind you this is the only man I have been with. We have been together for 15 years.

My husband and I have been married 15 years and together for a total of 20 years. Throughout our marriage he has had numerous affairs, and I always chose to forgive him. His latest affair is with a girl 20 years younger (27) than him with children from different men. He is 47. She is a co-worker and has qualities that he has always said he didn’t want.

He told me several times that he ended the affair and wanted me and to attend counseling; however, he has now left me for her since I found yet another hidden cell phone, and said it is because she shows him love, affection and has a lot of different sexual moves that he likes.

My husband and i had a fight before and i said things that make his change his mind and forget all his feelings for me..i said to him that i regret that he is my husband and the father of my son…but i did not meant it…

i said that because he always scold me and said things that kinda hurt me badly…then lately i found out that he cheated..i asked him why he cheated and he answered “you regret being with me so i looked for someone who will not regret being with me”…. is it a valid reason why he cheat?