I found out in December that my partner had slept with a girl at his workplace. It apprently happened early on in the relationship but says he cant remember exactly when. He also says it happened twice, but I dont know if this is true.

They still work in the same place and I am finding it very hard to get rid of the images that float around my head. I can go for days and we are so happy then all of a sudden I get a thought or an image & I wanna lash out at him but I keep it in & it just stews.

Cutting long story short.

Am an Indian, married for 16 years. Have two kids. They are in India since 2009 taking care of kids’ education and I am in Middle East on job. Observing (December 2010): (i) her not taking interest in sex for 1 year (ii) not smiling at me when I reach home, (iii) talking to an unmarried next door bachelor on mobile phone in whisper, (iv) inviting a grown up boy to home and giving him mobile number, (v) and frequent fights, I understood something was wrong. I visit them once in 3 months.

In Jan 2011, after a fight, she confessed to have fallen in love and agreed to marry a schoolmate in 1992.

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. after 1 year we started to live together. I have children from a previous marriage and I had to move to try and help straighten out my 16 year son. He has not lived under my rule or household since age 5.I found a place suitable to live and try to help this situation out. Of course things only got worse in regards to my 16 year old.

My boyfriend begged and pleased for me and my youngest son (10 years old) to come back to his home. He has a close relationship with my 10 year old and has been apart of my youngest son’s life for the entire 4 years we have been together.

I’ve been seeing this guy for the past few months. He’s one of my really good friends brother’s, which is obviously how we met. He had just gotten out of a relationship with a girl that he has a daughter with a few weeks before we met. Now, from the beginning, I understood that I would always come second to his daughter. And we had talked it out, and he said that he was over the mother of his child, and that they had both talked it out and decided that they were no good for each other and had come to the decision to move on from each other. about a month into our relationship, she decided she wanted him back. He told her no, but never mentioned anything about him moving on and seeing someone else.

Me and my boyfriend been together for 1 year now. He was with his ex for 3 years n he cheated on me with her, then she gets online sends me a message saying she is pregnant. So I ask him about it and he says yeah i guess and tells me what happened. He says he was drunk and that he didnt know what he was doing. He says maybe he had to do it to realize he didnt wanna be with her anymore. I love him to death and would do anything for him. But he keeps talking to her on the phone and he wont tell her he is with me. He says they are just friends. I really dont know what to think or do about the situation anymore. Ive been cheated on in basically every relationship and I just usually ignore it push it off and move on but this time its just to hard to do that.