Danine Manette is the author of the popular book Ultimate Betrayal: Recognizing, Uncovering and Dealing with Infidelity… and she is also the Diva’s newest *celebrity* writer at IDCheaters.com, lending her personal experience and professional training on how to catch a cheating partner.

Interviewed by numerous television, radio, newspaper and internet media, Danine is often called upon as an expert on the topic of infidelity. Oprah caught the *buzz* and asked her to take a guest spot on the show! Quite impressive considering the humble beginnings of her book.

Ultimate Betrayal was conceived during the darkest hours following the discovery of infidelity in her marriage.

You’ve found the evidence, have confronted your spouse, and are now trying to figure out if the marriage can be repaired. You are wondering if you will ever love, trust or be able to get over the hurt, rage and jealousy which results from discovering your mate had an affair. You feel all alone in your grief and are wondering what comes next in this process. Well, let me walk you through the steps, and what you can expect to find down this long, dark road toward recovery.

#1 The initial shock. This is the phase where you are simply in disbelief. You cannot comprehend that your spouse was physically or emotionally intimate with someone other than yourself. You start piecing the puzzle together and realize that so much of your reality was actually a lie.