I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. after 1 year we started to live together. I have children from a previous marriage and I had to move to try and help straighten out my 16 year son. He has not lived under my rule or household since age 5.I found a place suitable to live and try to help this situation out. Of course things only got worse in regards to my 16 year old.

My boyfriend begged and pleased for me and my youngest son (10 years old) to come back to his home. He has a close relationship with my 10 year old and has been apart of my youngest son’s life for the entire 4 years we have been together.

The problem comes in when shortly after moving back to my boyfriends house. I am cleaning and dusting our bedroom and basically getting a little organization going on around the place. I open up one of his drawers in his night stand and am blown away. In a brown paper bag there are 2 condoms and 3 more empty condoms wrappers. along with that lubricate jelly. I am not sure what to do?

Your Plan: Work it out