I’ve been seeing this guy for the past few months. He’s one of my really good friends brother’s, which is obviously how we met. He had just gotten out of a relationship with a girl that he has a daughter with a few weeks before we met. Now, from the beginning, I understood that I would always come second to his daughter. And we had talked it out, and he said that he was over the mother of his child, and that they had both talked it out and decided that they were no good for each other and had come to the decision to move on from each other. about a month into our relationship, she decided she wanted him back. He told her no, but never mentioned anything about him moving on and seeing someone else. when i confronted him about this, he said he didnt want her to know about me because he wasnt sure if she would do anything to stop him from seeing his daughter. i understood because from the stories i heard from him, she seemed like the very spiteful type. but now its a few months down the road, and just the other night, he was spending the night at my house, and his brother called saying that his ex was at his house with his daughter to surprise him. i didnt understand at first why she was at his brothers, but then i was told that he told the ex that he was spending the night at his brothers house.

its been months since they’ve broken up, and since we’ve been together, and if they both have moved on like they say they have, then why is he still lying to her about me?

i will be talking to him about this soon, but i just wanted to get someone from the outside that doesnt know us to give me some advice and tell me what it seems like he’s doing.

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