I have been married for 10 years and with my wife for about 14 years, we have 2 young sons. My wife and I have been drifting apart for years now I would say about 5 years. She as pleaded with on multiple occasion so wake up and give her some attention which I did not. I did give other type of attention but not the romantic type. I was acting more like here dad. She told me multiple times that if I did not do something she would end up cheating on me.

I did not believe here until recently.

She called last night. She is with some one eles. I was drinking when she called, and so was she. We talk until morning. She told me of all the men she has gone out with, I was the only guy that did not what to marry her.

Should I be jealous and should I try and get her back? The chemistry with her is, shall we say awesome. If I try and steal her away, is that cheating?