The truth is that as shocking as it may be, cheating does not make your wife a bad person. It might make her a bad wife but even then, not necessarily. Good and bad are always in the eye of the beholder but her doing one thing that is wrong or bad does not make her a bad person.
Good People do Bad Things
No one is completely without fault. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. We all do things that, in the eyes of another person, are bad. We even do things we feel are bad but sometimes just can’t help ourselves (or at least feel as though we can’t). That doesn’t make us all bad people.
It all comes down to that one fact: good people sometimes do bad things. They make mistakes. They have regrets. Your wife can still be a good person even though she cheated. Only you will be able to decide if that is good enough for you and to save your marriage.
Why is Your Wife Cheating on You?
An important question to get to the bottom of before you make your final decision about whether or not you can live with your wife now that she has cheated on you is why. Why did she do it?
Now the kicker of all kickers is that she might not even know. At least, she might not know on the surface. It could take some serious digging to get down to the heart of the reason that she ultimately cheated. You can bet though that she didn’t just wake up one morning and decide to risk her marriage on a whim. There’s something going on inside of her that led her to that decision and that moment.
Unfortunately, no one but your wife can give you a concrete effort. You do need to find out why. You especially need to find out if you are considering trying to make your marriage work. It can’t possibly work in the long term without finding out the real reason and setting out to make things right quickly.
Are you up for that particular challenge?
Are you ready to make things right between the two of you?
Or, do you think it’s too late for the two of you?
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About the Author – TW Jackson
If you’ve already sent your wife packing it’s not too late to get your ex back and save your marriage.