I read a lot about cheating men, but my life was destroyed by my cheating wife and the homewrecker douchebag who is now with her. HE knew my now EX was married that we had a 2 year old. I had even met him a few times and had been to his house. Now my whole life has changed, I had to quit my job to relocate myself and my daughter to be closer to family and had to give up my dreams after putting in 2 hard HARD years of work.

My shitty ex wife lied and lied and covered it up (this after knowing her 15 years) At least she did decide she wanted to stay in her daughters life and moved back as well. Now we are divorced and I have joint custody of my daughter who means the world to me.

I can\’t believe my wife is cheating on me. I believed she was such a good person or I would have never married her. You\’d be amazed how often conversations like this happen in wake of finding out a wife has cheated on her husband.

The truth is that as shocking as it may be, cheating does not make your wife a bad person. It might make her a bad wife but even then, not necessarily. Good and bad are always in the eye of the beholder but her doing one thing that is wrong or bad does not make her a bad person.