Comments on: Serial Cheater Looking for Office Romance http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Tue, 07 Feb 2012 00:32:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Joseph http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-254963 Joseph Tue, 22 Mar 2011 17:30:47 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-254963 Like I said the heart is the issue. The heart is deceitfully wicked. What would you do if you can do anything and not get caught? There is your heart problem. Stop calling yourself good. Cause non of us are. Only Jesus is good. He being innocent endured Gods wrath on the cross to substitute those who would come to repent of their sins and come to faith in his name. (Jesus) So they don't have to perish and pay Gods wrath themselfs. But those who reject him ( Jesus) will pay Gods wrath themselves. We all have broken Gods law either Jesus pays for you or You pay it yourself. May God grant you repentance. Like I said the heart is the issue. The heart is deceitfully wicked. What would you do if you can do anything and not get caught? There is your heart problem. Stop calling yourself good. Cause non of us are. Only Jesus is good. He being innocent endured Gods wrath on the cross to substitute those who would come to repent of their sins and come to faith in his name. (Jesus) So they don’t have to perish and pay Gods wrath themselfs. But those who reject him ( Jesus) will pay Gods wrath themselves. We all have broken Gods law either Jesus pays for you or You pay it yourself. May God grant you repentance.

]]> By: Joseph http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-254962 Joseph Mon, 21 Mar 2011 17:26:19 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-254962 Although he says that he didn't have sex because 1st he didn't have the condoms and 2 nd time because the condoms did not fit. Is not the biggest problem. The biggest problem was his intentions. It's what is in his heart. What would he do if the condoms did intact fit. We should ask ourselves these questions. What would we do if we could do anything and be guarantee we would never get got? What would we choose to do to get what we want? Cheat, steal, lie, kill, torture Ask yourself this, and then ask yourself this after. Are you a good person? Performing good actions does not make you good.See people the heart is the issue. The heart causes the actions. There is non good but God. Good equals perfection. Non of us are perfect. Although he says that he didn’t have sex because 1st he didn’t have the condoms and 2 nd time because the condoms did not fit. Is not the biggest problem. The biggest problem was his intentions. It’s what is in his heart. What would he do if the condoms did intact fit. We should ask ourselves these questions. What would we do if we could do anything and be guarantee we would never get got? What would we choose to do to get what we want? Cheat, steal, lie, kill, torture Ask yourself this, and then ask yourself this after. Are you a good person? Performing good actions does not make you good.See people the heart is the issue. The heart causes the actions. There is non good but God. Good equals perfection. Non of us are perfect.

]]> By: deltic http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-211595 deltic Tue, 12 Oct 2010 22:45:13 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-211595 Yes Stav, women cheat too, yet when we talk about a cheater we often speak in terms of a man cheating on a woman. Yes Stav, women cheat too, yet when we talk about a cheater we often speak in terms of a man cheating on a woman.

]]> By: stav http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-211357 stav Mon, 11 Oct 2010 20:22:44 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-211357 it is one thing to forgive him his lie and faults, quite another to blindly believe and accept the lies he is telling you. (or she, women are by no means innocent of this) it is one thing to forgive him his lie and faults, quite another to blindly believe and accept the lies he is telling you. (or she, women are by no means innocent of this)

]]> By: kernow http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-211310 kernow Mon, 11 Oct 2010 13:52:17 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-211310 Stav is quite right, when you love and trust someone you long to believe them, but if when you have had time to think it through you still believe the person despite the evidence, you are lying to yourself and you colluding with the cheater. If you want to forgive him at least make it clear that you know you have been lied to. Stav is quite right, when you love and trust someone you long to believe them, but if when you have had time to think it through you still believe the person despite the evidence, you are lying to yourself and you colluding with the cheater. If you want to forgive him at least make it clear that you know you have been lied to.

]]> By: Katharina http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-211292 Katharina Mon, 11 Oct 2010 10:46:06 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-211292 You got it, Stav... they know exactly where to come in and where the vulnerability is. Someone told me once that if we share our vulnerabilities with another, it gives them the tool with which to destroy us. Sadly, that's true. :-( You got it, Stav… they know exactly where to come in and where the vulnerability is. Someone told me once that if we share our vulnerabilities with another, it gives them the tool with which to destroy us.

Sadly, that’s true. :-(

]]> By: stav http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-211197 stav Mon, 11 Oct 2010 00:37:40 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-211197 Trouble is, when you love someone, you WANT to believe he is telling the truth, and the unscrupulous will take advantage of the fact. Trouble is, when you love someone, you WANT to believe he is telling the truth, and the unscrupulous will take advantage of the fact.

]]> By: Orrymain http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-211185 Orrymain Sun, 10 Oct 2010 22:01:46 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-211185 It does take courage to stand up and not be stepped on. We have a tendency to make it a competition about losing, and that's not smart. It does take courage to stand up and not be stepped on. We have a tendency to make it a competition about losing, and that’s not smart.

]]> By: deltic http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-211175 deltic Sun, 10 Oct 2010 21:29:31 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-211175 Exactly! If you want to forgive him that is one thing but don't put up with being lied to. Exactly! If you want to forgive him that is one thing but don’t put up with being lied to.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2010/06/serial-cheater-looking-for-office-romance.html/comment-page-1#comment-211165 justontime Sun, 10 Oct 2010 21:04:43 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1216#comment-211165 In my experience if it doesn't sound believable, it usually isn't. Do you really believe that he paid for a hotel room at least twice and nothing happened? In my experience if it doesn’t sound believable, it usually isn’t. Do you really believe that he paid for a hotel room at least twice and nothing happened?

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