Comments on: A Cheating Husband …. And, He\’s a Lawyer!

By: Orrymain

Orrymain — Sat, 18 Sep 2010 07:26:07 +0000

I am so sorry to hear that you are in the process of being alone. I know that living with disabilities is a huge challenge. If finances are going to be a problem, start calling around. There are places to help!

By: deltic

deltic — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 21:49:04 +0000

I am so sorry, he has made his choice and he has moved away from you, you need a good lawyer and you need to take care of yourself.

By: stav

stav — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 21:28:29 +0000

why does he go so far for other women? How very odd.. is he going through some sort of midlife crisis? Trying to re-capture h is lost youth? It seems like you’ve been together for a very long time, and maybe he feels like he has missed out on something.

Anyway, he is not the only lawyer on the planet.. Make sure you get yourself a good one.

By: Katharina

Katharina — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 17:01:17 +0000

I see that you’re already in divorce proceedings, so that’s not the kind of advice you’re seeking. If it’s just general advice you need, I’d say that you need to respect yourself and know that you’ll be fine after the shock and initial drama wears off.

You owe it to yourself to give yourself a good life… this *is* a new beginning after all, right?

By: Christine Mattice

Christine Mattice — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 00:47:24 +0000

It does sound like you and your husband have been together so long that neither one of you really got a chance to experience life. That may be what your husband is doing now. I don’t condone it, but it is one explanation.

By: Hosea

Hosea — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 00:23:31 +0000

You write, “Our marriage of 24 years and 38 years going steady …” and your husband is now 52. It sounds to me like you met and started “going steady” when he was 14 — just two years after this other girlfriend — and didn’t marry until he was 28, which was 14 years later! Have I done that math right???

That’s kind of amazing: because by that reckoning he has been “with you” since long before he was even an adult. In all that time, did you ever notice *anything* off? I don’t think I can give advice because I don’t know anything about your marriage. I mean, maybe he’s been nursing some secret grudge for a long time, or maybe he just feels like he never got a chance to be wild and crazy. Any ideas on which?