I have been married for 7 years. I found out that my husband was cheating on me. I filed for divorce and in the mean time of waiting for everything to go through, I found out the other woman is pregnant. My husband says he does not love her and does not want to be with her. I says I am still number one and he will never love no one but me. After the divorce, he still want to go to the movies and have dinner every now and then. Do you think he will continue to sleep with her after the baby is born? Remind you this is the only man I have been with. We have been together for 15 years.
Your Plan: Confront my partner
Advice For Others: If the baby need something, he will bring it and when she open the door she will be naked and will tease him to give him. never date your ex husband after a divorce.
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You really need to let this guy go. He’s ruining your life as well as the other womans. He can’t be trusted and he isn’t worth your valuable time. As long as you let him take advantage of you, he will. Be better than that…because you are better than that!
Only you can answer those questions, but it seems reasonable to assume that if he cheated while married he will continue to take his pleasures after the divorce (if he can). Do you really want to be dragged down by a man who will have to pay child support for the next 20 years? What about the child, surely he will have to be involved in it’s life in a practical sense. All children should know both their parents. I am sorry that he let you down so badly.
He wants to keep you and carry on seeing the other woamn too? I would tell him to get lost.
You deserve better, and you need to build a new life without him. How could you possibly trust him after this?
Re your last comment about the other woman tempting him with her body. Is this what he has told you or have you actually seen it yourself? It sounds as if he is trying to fool himself, if he wasn’t interested there would be nothing she could do to tempt him. Stav is right, don’t settle for second best.
If he has cheated on you once, then he will of course cheat on you again.
I say follow through with your plans to get a divorce and make it final. The husband has to deal with the other woman’s pregnancy, but you don’t.
I agree with Taggart. Why should you be disadvantaged because he has to pay child support for the next 20 years.
You really need to let this guy go. He’s ruining your life as well as the other womans. He can’t be trusted and he isn’t worth your valuable time. As long as you let him take advantage of you, he will. Be better than that…because you are better than that!
Let him go. Don’t let him have the cake and the pie both. He did it once; odds say he’ll do it again.
Orrymain is right, if he has cheated once the chances are that he will do it again.