Comments on: Relationship Tips – Relationship Chemistry

By: justontime

justontime — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 00:38:29 +0000

Even if the chemistry feels right, take your time. What you see as attractive at first may be irritating in a long term partner.

By: stav

stav — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 18:40:49 +0000

It is always something indefineable tat finally attracts us to the person we are meant to be with.

By: debrajean

debrajean — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 10:51:10 +0000

Chemistry is important in every relationship. Having all three is the ideal, but many make it work with only one or two.

By: justontime

justontime — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 11:44:39 +0000

I guess that is true Stav. In the real world it isn’t just about looks, in fact looks are fairly unimportant when choosing a life partner. Honesty, kindness, humour, reliability and so many other things are much more important.

By: stav

stav — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:48:49 +0000

Once again coming back to that ‘chemistry’ thing justontime.

If aske we can all give a pretty distinct description of what we supposedly find most attractive, et life partners rarely seem to fit that ‘ideal’.

By: justontime

justontime — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 00:11:02 +0000

I was interested in Deltic’s comment and Srav’s response. I think it is because when we choose a life partner we base it on so much more than looks. Looks fade but the person on the inside is what really matters. My husband has blue eyes and fairly light hair but I find ‘my type’ would be dark haired with dark brown eyes.

By: stav

stav — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 17:40:11 +0000

LOL! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder Taggart.. he is good looking to me, though someone else may not think so. Again it comes back to that ‘chemistry’.

As for romance novels… YUK!

By: Taggart

Taggart — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 01:19:45 +0000

Stav, your description reminds me of the cover of romance novels… Just kidding…

I don’t think my typically ideal person had a specific color of hair or eyes, but I think self confidence and a sense of humour were always very attractive to me.

By: stav

stav — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:20:45 +0000

Funny enough Deltic, that’s exactly what happened to me.. Supposedly I loved tall blonde rugged men.. not too good looking.. I married a short dark devastatingly handsome Greek instead..

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 19:09:07 +0000

I think that chemistry is undefinable but we know when we feel it. I think that chemistry is what attracts us to our friends and lovers in the first place, but it takes more that than to KEEP us together.