My sister start dating this older man and he was married i neva knew about that but i didnt care at that point but one day they start playing on my phone i thought it was her so i was playing rite bak but then i noticed days after that it was them together playing on the phone but this time it was only him i was shock but since i didnt want to be rude i continue to talk to him he made me laugh alot at his jokes and we talked about sex but we both planned to meet up and stay the nite wit each other i agreed because i didnt want to stay home and i didnt think nothing happen so we had sex he went unprotected in me but thats wat he said but i know i saw him wit a condom on so then the next day we went to eat and i went back home my stomach didnt feel rite.

I STARTED SEEING A MAN 10 YRS AGO, THE FIRST 4 YRS HE WAS MARRIED, HIS WIFE LEFT AND THEIR 2 KIDS, BECAUSE SHE WAS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE ALSO, I WAS NOT THE FIRST PERSON THAT HE HAS CHEATED WITH ON HER, I KNEW THAT IF SHE HADN’T BEEN ONE TO LEAVE THEY WOULD STILL BE TOGETHER, DURING ALL THIS IT WAS I LOVE U SO MUCH, U ARE THE ONE I WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE TOGETHER, THE NEXT 6 YRS WE WERE TOGETHER AS A COUPLE, I MEET THE CHILDREN THEY WERE 6 & 4 YRS OLD AT THE TIME, GOT REAL CLOSE WITH THEM, WE HAD OUR UPS AND DOWNS DURING ALL THIS, BUT ALWAYS GOT BACK TOGETHER.

HE NEVER DID COME OUT AND ASK ME TO MARRY HIM, I WOULD ALWAYS BE JUST WHEN I HAD GOTTEN TO POINT OF WANTING TO MARRY U, SOMETHING WOULD HAPPEN BETWEEN US, AND CHANGE MY MIND.

A lot of my female matchmaking clients are separated. They think they want to start dating…but often, they’re only doing it to avoid the pain and make their ex jealous. After a multitude of dead-end dates, the majority turn to me and confess: “Carrie, what I really want is to get my ex husband back. And I don’t know how.”
If this sounds like you, then pay close attention to what I’m about to tell you. Before you can even think about saving your marriage, you need to lay the groundwork. These 5 points will help you do just that.

1. Be 100% that getting back together is the right thing to do. Check your motives. Is it him you really want…or do you just desperately want to be married? If you’re more afraid of being alone than in love with your ex, that’s not a good reason to reunite. Make a list of reasons you want him in your life, and let a close friend read them.