So, it started with a new girl at work. We both play a game of acting jealous. I secretly was really. I told him i would like it if they really didn’t hold many conversations. Skip forward about…3 weeks. It was the day of my best friends wedding. I was a bridesmaid. That day a person from our work came up to me and told me that he was getting a little chummy with her. 5 people confirmed this. I was heartbroken. All he did was merely talk to the girl and i cried. He said he would leave her alone…i believed him.

A couple weeks later i went on a big family vacation with him. Everything was fine. We had gotten over our differences. Now, skip about 3-4 weeks ahead of us getting back from vacation. I was eating dinner over his house one night, he was in the kitchen, i was in the living room.

The deception is hard to take. It embarrasses you and makes you ashamed. The way you feel, you would almost think that it was your fault, and part of the reason for the cheating probably is. Maybe your partner was not just looking for a thrill but it could be something much deeper.

Whatever the reason, if you want to save the relationship you need to take steps to get over being cheated upon. Here are 4 effective tips to help you: