If you need to win love back because the other person couldn\’t trust you anymore, you will have to proceed slowly. If you messed up and fooled around with someone else, you have to prove that you can be loyal again.

First, you must be certain that you want your ex back. What is going to keep you from straying again? Could it be that the reason you fooled around is because you weren\’t 100 percent sure you wanted your ex? If this is the case, are you now sure that you want the relationship to go forward?

I still love my ex.Do they still love me? Its a frequent question asked when a relationship appears to have broken down.
If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it\’s okay to be a little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun. The problem is that you are still in love with your ex but you have no way of knowing whether your ex might still be in love with you.

Its often an uncertain time when a relationship breaks down, whether you caused it or your ex or whether it was mutual and the longer the relationship,the tougher it can be. There are all those shared times together, all those memories. There will be other passions around as well, regret, bitterness to name just two. You may still be thinking I\’m still in love with my ex, are they still in love with me and its entirely possible your ex is thinking the same.

Okay for a year my life and my kids life was hell.My husband would cuss us and tell me and my kids that theyd be better off if i got in a wreck or was killed somehow.My kids are 15,13,9.My husband works nite shift alot and has a job on the side he works when he gets off his regular job.

He had become so jealous of me i couldnt talk to any male.My 15 yr olds bfs i couldnt talk to without being cussed saying i was sleeping with them or our man that comes to spray our house for bugs.I was so miserable i started drinking and taking nerve pills when i knew i had to be with him especially have sex with him.I kept my kids out of school just not to have to be with him in anyway especially sex.Well 2 mths ago a woman messages me on myspace telling me she has been having an affair with him for a year and she loves him and he loved her.He says she told me because she was was mad he ended it with her the day before.I dont know what to do.