Comments on: Marla’s Life Has Been Miserable http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Sun, 07 Mar 2010 00:49:57 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Taggart http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-170582 Taggart Sat, 06 Mar 2010 15:05:22 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-170582 Hopefully Marla's taking the high road. I wonder how she's doing? I think over time the tendency to want revenge may lessen as she gets on with her life in a positive way. Hopefully Marla’s taking the high road. I wonder how she’s doing?

I think over time the tendency to want revenge may lessen as she gets on with her life in a positive way.

]]> By: deltic http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-165819 deltic Mon, 25 Jan 2010 00:37:02 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-165819 That is right living your life well is a victory for you and it sends a very clear signal that he couldn't destroy your life. Just focus on one step at a time. That is right living your life well is a victory for you and it sends a very clear signal that he couldn’t destroy your life. Just focus on one step at a time.

]]> By: stav http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-165791 stav Sun, 24 Jan 2010 18:30:06 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-165791 Focussing on positive will be a victory of sorts anyway. Show them that you can manage well enough, and don't need them. Focussing on positive will be a victory of sorts anyway. Show them that you can manage well enough, and don’t need them.

]]> By: Taggart http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-165780 Taggart Sun, 24 Jan 2010 14:29:13 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-165780 I agree with deltic and stav. I think most of us know examples of people who focus on positive rather than negative energy, and they are happier for it. I'm sure it can be challenging at times. I agree with deltic and stav. I think most of us know examples of people who focus on positive rather than negative energy, and they are happier for it. I’m sure it can be challenging at times.

]]> By: deltic http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-165756 deltic Sat, 23 Jan 2010 22:24:38 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-165756 Stav is right about revenge not being a good idea. Hold your head high and make life as good as you can for you and your children. Stav is right about revenge not being a good idea. Hold your head high and make life as good as you can for you and your children.

]]> By: Taggart http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-165748 Taggart Sat, 23 Jan 2010 21:48:51 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-165748 As for seeing the other woman in public, ironically I think most people would think that she should be the one with the reason to be uncomfortable, not the spouse. As for seeing the other woman in public, ironically I think most people would think that she should be the one with the reason to be uncomfortable, not the spouse.

]]> By: stav http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-165643 stav Sat, 23 Jan 2010 00:18:49 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-165643 Revenge will not make you feel better... As the others have said, just take care of yourself and your kids.. Revenge will not make you feel better… As the others have said, just take care of yourself and your kids..

]]> By: chris1203 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-165594 chris1203 Fri, 22 Jan 2010 14:32:47 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-165594 I agree with the others who have advised you to look out for your children first. They must be your first priority because you are (really) all they have. I agree with the others who have advised you to look out for your children first. They must be your first priority because you are (really) all they have.

]]> By: mollyL http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-161278 mollyL Tue, 24 Nov 2009 21:39:06 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-161278 I'm coming in a bit late in the game, but I want to add my voice to those telling you to think of your kids first. I’m coming in a bit late in the game, but I want to add my voice to those telling you to think of your kids first.

]]> By: Orrymain http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/07/marlas-life-has-been-miserable.html/comment-page-1#comment-158152 Orrymain Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:28:21 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1067#comment-158152 Kernow is absolutely right. You need to do whatever is necessary to protect yourself and your children, and to do that, you have to be clean and clear. Kernow is absolutely right. You need to do whatever is necessary to protect yourself and your children, and to do that, you have to be clean and clear.

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