Comments on: I’m Still In Love With My Ex. Do They Still Love Me?

By: justontime

justontime — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 14:41:12 +0000

There must have been a compelling reason for him becoming an ex in the first place.

By: stav

stav — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 23:07:29 +0000

Nothing wrong with being on better terms with your ‘ex’ but remember that they are ‘EX’ for good reason, and don’t allow yourself to fall for the charm offensive.

When the first flush of ‘re-discovered’ love wears off, it will still be the skunk you married the first time..

By: justontime

justontime — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 21:59:50 +0000

When an ex starts showing more attention it may be genuine but consider all the possibilities. What does he want, is he trying to avoid his financial responsibilities?

By: Taggart

Taggart — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 11:30:16 +0000

Well, I can think of one example where the person breaking up the marriage may have learned in the next couple years that things were actually better in his marriage than in his new relationship. I don’t know what he thinks about getting back together, but I can imagine that his former wife may be willing to try if he was.

By: kernow

kernow — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 10:31:00 +0000

I agree with everyone else that there are very few occasions when it would be wise to get back with an ex.

By: justontime

justontime — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 11:52:57 +0000

I really can’t think of many cases where it would be a good idea to go back to an ex. I think in most cases it would just lead to more sadness.

By: deltic

deltic — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 16:30:02 +0000

Separation and divorce are big steps and they don’t happen suddenly. Usually a combination of events have led to that point. I think in most cases it would be a mistake to go back. It is better to move on and build a new life.

By: Taggart

Taggart — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 12:07:13 +0000

I agree that in most cases, an ex should remain and ex. I suppose there may be exceptions, but of the people in my circle of friends, a divorce or separation has usually been a step in the right direction.

By: Justontime

Justontime — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 17:50:34 +0000

Heretoday and SageMother are right this man belongs firmly in the past, don’t allow him to ruin your future too.

By: SageMother

SageMother — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 20:07:17 +0000

The best policy is to leave and ex, “ex’d”.

There no greater obstacle to moving forward, then returning to the same people hoping for a new relationship.