Comments on: Why Do Some Men Stray into Infidelity?

By: T

Tue, 07 Jul 2009 23:26:17 +0000

Ladies,

And the other woman gets just as bold as the man if they are not challenged. It’s amusing for them to think that he will leave his wife and family for them and when he doesn’t, they get crazy.

This Steve McNair is a prime example of the “other woman” gone bad. She just knew he would leave his wife and family and he didn’t but she could not handle that rejection. The “unfair relationship” that she should not have been in anyway but he paid dearly for his cheating and that was with his life. Totally unfortunate and really embarrassing for his wife and children. But this stupid woman could not understand that she never had him and could not deal with not having him. Unreal but a tragic ending for this man and his wife and children.

By: Justontime

Justontime — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 13:12:14 +0000

I don’t know if this just applies to men, possibly not, but I have noticed that the more they get away with the bolder they get, and they always seem to be able to find reasons to justify their actions.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 06:32:22 +0000

SageMother, I think it’s natural for us women to think of covering our tracks if we do something sneaky.

I just find that some men get a little bit over confident that their actions won’t be challenged or that they feel that any excuse will be okay.

By: SG

SG — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:34:20 +0000

Here, here Justontime.

By: Justontime

Justontime — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 11:56:34 +0000

What a lot of nonsense, the writer of this article doesn’t have a clue. He makes huge assumptions based on sexual stereotypes. Life is not like that all people are different and ALL people have to take responsibility for their actions. Blaming it on someone else is stupid. If there are problems in the relationship the ‘neglected’ person should communicate their feelings to their partner instead of straying.

By: T

Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:35:52 +0000

This is very good information for the “other women.” I know many are high on their horses to blame the wife for not doing what they think they should at home to prevent him from straying. Well think about it, men usually go for the other women because their standards are below the woman they have at home. They know the woman at home will not indulge herself or disrespect herself by being with another man. The other woman on the other hand, well they strive to be with married or committed men because they have no or very low standards. The connection is exciting initially and they just keep going back. The intent is to never leave his wife or family and as long as the other woman keeps the “door” open to him, he will come. It’s not about what is going on at the home because the marriage will be great and they still want more.

Ladies, they can’t get it if we don’t be the low life and allow it to happen to us. Crying after the fact is worthless because we knew going in as a real woman that he was married. Don’t sit idle by believing the BS that he loves your or will be leaving his wife soon because he’s going no where. He knows that you are really the fool he spotted and canvased and knows he he has you hooked with the “great sex” and lovely time. He is going no where and you’re just simply being his paid prostitute even though you think he loves you. Why are you other women so weak to the words “I love you and want to spend my life with you” cause you have to know he is lying. When the real deal shows then you want to cry and run and tell the wife. Well, most wives already know, they just don’t what the hooker looks like nor who she is. You must know she is going nowhere, which is why you run and tell. Just sad but know this is the reason it happens and it’s not the wife’s fault…it’s the idea that he wants more and yours is AVAILABLE so he goes for what he wants. Men are natural hunters and they will hunt until they get their prey….oops, I mean their whore.

Stop the madness, ladies….be real women and not the other woman. Come on!!!