Comments on: Dating A Married Man That Will Not Leave His Wife http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Tue, 07 Feb 2012 00:32:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: me1981 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-250292 me1981 Thu, 10 Mar 2011 18:00:33 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-250292 What you want is to hurt the wife, because you share his attention with her and their daughter. You're mad because you put so much effort into trying to make yourself attractive enough to keep him, but she does not, and still gets taken care of. You're jealous because you believe you are entitled to his full attention and you need confirmation,constatntly, that you are attractive, thus being the better choice. I believe you love the chase, you love the feeling of being better than someone. Unfortunetely, for you, he will not leave her. He is addicted to the excitement of cheating, and needs it to feel like a man, because he is inadequate. He knows that you'll stick around and since you guys are all older, he knows his chances of landing another woman willing to open her legs at no cost for unlimited amounts of time will probably not happen. If you leave, he will see hookers or try to get another woman. You are not the exception to his marriage, he would cheat on you if you married him. BTW, it WILL come back to bite you, I know this! You will either dump him, or get dumped and find another loser who will cheat on you or you'll just die an old wrinkly sad shadow of a woman-happens every day, so don't think your above God. Next time you think about getting on your knees for him, pray for redemption, cause you're going to need it. What you want is to hurt the wife, because you share his attention with her and their daughter. You’re mad because you put so much effort into trying to make yourself attractive enough to keep him, but she does not, and still gets taken care of. You’re jealous because you believe you are entitled to his full attention and you need confirmation,constatntly, that you are attractive, thus being the better choice. I believe you love the chase, you love the feeling of being better than someone.

Unfortunetely, for you, he will not leave her. He is addicted to the excitement of cheating, and needs it to feel like a man, because he is inadequate. He knows that you’ll stick around and since you guys are all older, he knows his chances of landing another woman willing to open her legs at no cost for unlimited amounts of time will probably not happen. If you leave, he will see hookers or try to get another woman. You are not the exception to his marriage, he would cheat on you if you married him. BTW, it WILL come back to bite you, I know this! You will either dump him, or get dumped and find another loser who will cheat on you or you’ll just die an old wrinkly sad shadow of a woman-happens every day, so don’t think your above God. Next time you think about getting on your knees for him, pray for redemption, cause you’re going to need it.

]]> By: mae http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-153487 mae Wed, 16 Feb 2011 18:15:59 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-153487 i didn't realize there were so many stupid women..these married men are using you to fill their ego..the ego of a man is always ready to be uplifted on a daily basis..i really think you women are just looking for something from a married man that your father didn't do for you i didn’t realize there were so many stupid women..these married men are using you to fill their ego..the ego of a man is always ready to be uplifted on a daily basis..i really think you women are just looking for something from a married man that your father didn’t do for you

]]> By: Jackson http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-153599 Jackson Sun, 13 Feb 2011 19:45:31 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-153599 T If you were fine, you would not have posted the messages. You appear to be hurt and heart broken by a man that obviously cares nothing about you. Your post make you appear to be unstable or at least not in the right frame of mind. Your post state that you are fine with your husband cheating on you. I do not believe a word of your post. It may be time for you to make some choices for your life. Is the money he is paying in bills in your house with all the heart break he is causing you? T

If you were fine, you would not have posted the messages. You appear to be hurt and heart broken by a man that obviously cares nothing about you. Your post make you appear to be unstable or at least not in the right frame of mind. Your post state that you are fine with your husband cheating on you. I do not believe a word of your post. It may be time for you to make some choices for your life. Is the money he is paying in bills in your house with all the heart break he is causing you?

]]> By: tina http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-246516 tina Sat, 12 Feb 2011 06:23:19 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-246516 I have been the other woman for 5 months. He pursued me for 4 years. The chemistry off the charts. I fell in love. He did not. He chose to "be friends" and see what happens later. I chose to tell her because I found out he's had more than one affair. There is no riding off into the sunset after you fk me over. I am a truly heartless btch and I tried everything to fk up his world. I found out he said he told her everything, and he said he even told his teenage kids of the affair. So, I sent them all every lewd, nasty, email icould send that he sent me. One talking about him jacking off to thinking of me in his bed a cumming on his stomach while he laid beside his wife. Now, wives, if u wanna have that guy...that's who u all have if u r here. I dumped his azz. I enlightened everyone, and I am free of a man who told me he loved me all day, and couldn't sleep by me in the night because of financial obligations and "his committment to God", and yes I type that in a most sarcastic tone. As I couldn't believe he said that to me as I reminded him that I don't think he ever believed his committment to her or God. Fking hypocrite. I am a homewrecker. I'm ashamed I fell in love with him but to try to rectify I stopped contact and cry my eyes out anf throw my guts up daily from hurt anguish and guilt. I never thought from the first kiss to try to hurt anyone, it just happened. I loved him. I've lost 20 pounds in a month. I've suffered, and continue to. This is the "other woman" consolation prize. If you can find it in your soul to let go, do what I did. Make them all hate you by sending every e mail, nasty pic, love letter, everything. Because after all he told her he confided everything to her after I busted him. I'd say his groveling, sniveling miserable ass will suck her azz from now to eternity. And he and "miss vanilla" are forever locked in their misery. Yes I hurt, but daily its eroding to the hate I need it to be. And hate feels a hell of a lot better than the pit of my stomach worn on the outside of my body. I learned. I will never see a married man again. He caught me at a weak time in my life, played my emotions, and yes I fell for it after 4 years of it non stop. Some of us do not just fall into bed at the snap of his fingers. We are all not whores, so u married women..can suck it.That is all. I have been the other woman for 5 months. He pursued me for 4 years. The chemistry off the charts. I fell in love. He did not. He chose to “be friends” and see what happens later. I chose to tell her because I found out he’s had more than one affair.
There is no riding off into the sunset after you fk me over. I am a truly heartless btch and I tried everything to fk up his world. I found out he said he told her everything, and he said he even told his teenage kids of the affair. So, I sent them all every lewd, nasty, email icould send that he sent me. One talking about him jacking off to thinking of me in his bed a cumming on his stomach while he laid beside his wife. Now, wives, if u wanna have that guy…that’s who u all have if u r here. I dumped his azz. I enlightened everyone, and I am free of a man who told me he loved me all day, and couldn’t sleep by me in the night because of financial obligations and “his committment to God”, and yes I type that in a most sarcastic tone. As I couldn’t believe he said that to me as I reminded him that I don’t think he ever believed his committment to her or God. Fking hypocrite.
I am a homewrecker. I’m ashamed I fell in love with him but to try to rectify I stopped contact and cry my eyes out anf throw my guts up daily from hurt anguish and guilt. I never thought from the first kiss to try to hurt anyone, it just happened. I loved him. I’ve lost 20 pounds in a month. I’ve suffered, and continue to. This is the “other woman” consolation prize. If you can find it in your soul to let go, do what I did. Make them all hate you by sending every e mail, nasty pic, love letter, everything. Because after all he told her he confided everything to her after I busted him. I’d say his groveling, sniveling miserable ass will suck her azz from now to eternity. And he and “miss vanilla” are forever locked in their misery. Yes I hurt, but daily its eroding to the hate I need it to be. And hate feels a hell of a lot better than the pit of my stomach worn on the outside of my body.
I learned. I will never see a married man again. He caught me at a weak time in my life, played my emotions, and yes I fell for it after 4 years of it non stop. Some of us do not just fall into bed at the snap of his fingers. We are all not whores, so u married women..can suck it.That is all.

]]> By: ann http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-155091 ann Wed, 09 Feb 2011 16:30:39 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-155091 Well i have been with my husband for 25 years, and just found out he had afair. He finaly told me , we have childen, so my tring to forgive him. You think just because we know and dont leave that we dont care,your wrong.I love my husband and this was been a nightmare. And this bitch was called me and done everything she could do trying to get me to leave him. So sad, she told him for months that if he didnt leave me she would tell me .So the day and he told me ,this is a woman that could only have him if she blackmailed him , know because he told her on the speakerphone that she didnt have anything on him anymore and he didnt want anything to with her, all she would say that it wasnt fair that he got to come home. So she dose everything to push me to kick him out. What you dont understand is even if i should have kick him out, this a man i have spent half my life with and i love . He is my life,sad but true. So yes im willing to try anything to keep my world together. But be warn a person can only take so much, and 9 out 10 time when we snap the other woman will be the one we hurt. Well i have been with my husband for 25 years, and just found out he had afair. He finaly told me , we have childen, so my tring to forgive him. You think just because we know and dont leave that we dont care,your wrong.I love my husband and this was been a nightmare. And this bitch was called me and done everything she could do trying to get me to leave him. So sad, she told him for months that if he didnt leave me she would tell me .So the day and he told me ,this is a woman that could only have him if she blackmailed him , know because he told her on the speakerphone that she didnt have anything on him anymore and he didnt want anything to with her, all she would say that it wasnt fair that he got to come home. So she dose everything to push me to kick him out. What you dont understand is even if i should have kick him out, this a man i have spent half my life with and i love . He is my life,sad but true. So yes im willing to try anything to keep my world together. But be warn a person can only take so much, and 9 out 10 time when we snap the other woman will be the one we hurt.

]]> By: SG http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-161836 SG Fri, 14 Jan 2011 21:15:42 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-161836 Seems that the discussion was about Rebecca having an issue with the family of this married man she was dating who has his wife still living with him. As eve and others have said and seem to repeat, she has problems. First for dating a married man and then for attempting to interfere with the marriage through the wife. I say get a life lady cause there seems to be some serious issues going on with you. Seems that the discussion was about Rebecca having an issue with the family of this married man she was dating who has his wife still living with him. As eve and others have said and seem to repeat, she has problems. First for dating a married man and then for attempting to interfere with the marriage through the wife. I say get a life lady cause there seems to be some serious issues going on with you.

]]> By: T http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-162206 T Wed, 12 Jan 2011 18:00:37 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-162206 Rebecca, seriously though, revenge is not worth it because you have to weigh what you did to get to this point. Back up and think about it and move on from this. You are not the victim Rebecca, seriously though, revenge is not worth it because you have to weigh what you did to get to this point. Back up and think about it and move on from this. You are not the victim

]]> By: Jamie http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-185450 Jamie Sat, 06 Nov 2010 01:15:31 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-185450 Well it is one thing to call the wife an old, fat gray haired hag, but never - and I repeat - never say anything derrogatory about an innocent child. Especially one that is handicapped. News flash - because this child is handicapped, she will more than likely be under his care all of her life. Even if the child was not handicapped, if you loved this man as you say you do, then you would want him to have a strong, happy relationship with his daughter(s). If this man had any sense he would drop you like a bad habit. You would bring him nothing but misery I am afraid. If, heaven forbid, you ever became a mother, I fear for your children. Well it is one thing to call the wife an old, fat gray haired hag, but never – and I repeat – never say anything derrogatory about an innocent child. Especially one that is handicapped. News flash – because this child is handicapped, she will more than likely be under his care all of her life. Even if the child was not handicapped, if you loved this man as you say you do, then you would want him to have a strong, happy relationship with his daughter(s). If this man had any sense he would drop you like a bad habit. You would bring him nothing but misery I am afraid. If, heaven forbid, you ever became a mother, I fear for your children.

]]> By: Tara Tulips http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-217443 Tara Tulips Wed, 03 Nov 2010 16:59:51 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-217443 Janna...this is my arguement with it's not the other womans fault when he lies....ofcourse you didn't do anything wrong when they lie and youhad no idea . BUT LEAVE WHEN YOU FIND OUT! Why be involved with a married pig who's going to do the same thing to you and NO you don't need to be the barrer of bad news to his wife.....your intention is either to get back at him or tell her and hope she leaves him...your "intention" isn't really to help her for "her own good" lets be real. You don't even know her so why would you care.....LET IT GO AND JUST MOVE ON!!! BTW AGAIN you did nothing wrong you're not a homewrecker ,he lied to you now get away from the pig! Janna…this is my arguement with it’s not the other womans fault when he lies….ofcourse you didn’t do anything wrong when they lie and youhad no idea . BUT LEAVE WHEN YOU FIND OUT! Why be involved with a married pig who’s going to do the same thing to you and NO you don’t need to be the barrer of bad news to his wife…..your intention is either to get back at him or tell her and hope she leaves him…your “intention” isn’t really to help her for “her own good” lets be real. You don’t even know her so why would you care…..LET IT GO AND JUST MOVE ON!!! BTW AGAIN you did nothing wrong you’re not a homewrecker ,he lied to you now get away from the pig!

]]> By: Janna http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/06/dating-a-married-man-that-will-not-leave-his-wife.html/comment-page-2#comment-208549 Janna Fri, 01 Oct 2010 06:07:19 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=1013#comment-208549 Also, I don't want to ruin his marriage. He has 4 young kids! He's only 28 yrs old. (OH Brother) When I found out he has children. My whole body felt numb, shed tears not because he lied its more about how could a married man who has kids and lovely wife at home and cheating on his wife behind her back. Anyways, This guy is the first married man that I've involved with. Please HELP. Anyone in here knows how to make a married man to stop cheating? Also, I don’t want to ruin his marriage. He has 4 young kids! He’s only 28 yrs old. (OH Brother) When I found out he has children. My whole body felt numb, shed tears not because he lied its more about how could a married man who has kids and lovely wife at home and cheating on his wife behind her back. Anyways, This guy is the first married man that I’ve involved with. Please HELP. Anyone in here knows how to make a married man to stop cheating?

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