Comments on: Cheating On His Girlfriend and Caught On Facebook

By: Lola

Lola — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 00:37:40 +0000

Hey girl I found mine was cheating thru myspace pictures and everything he denied it for months.. then i emailed her everything. In turn we broke up thankgod we did!!!!! He was emotionally abusive but I told her in an email and she still is with him! She is insane oh well.. what can i say I told her to save her heartache. Guess she thinks she can change him!

By: heretoday

heretoday — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 04:42:32 +0000

Anna, no matter what else might be said about this guy, he’s a stupid individual and you are better off to be rid of him.

By: Taggart

Taggart — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 15:02:34 +0000

I just noticed “Anon”’s post. There is obviously no way that this person could back up “a good 95%” figure considering the difficulty in getting accurate statistics on something that most people go to great lengths to conceal.

By: Jon

Jon — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 11:58:46 +0000

Why would you tell his gf? Sounds like nothing but revenge to me no matter which way you put it. You should have just left it alone and let karma work itself out. Anyway, if I were you, I would have been done the second he said he had to call his girl. What’s wrong with people! You make it sound like he was one bad thing after another. Sorry, but all the signs were right in your face and you didn’t make the smartest decision by staying with him through all that.

By: diva

diva — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 19:59:54 +0000

yeah you did i remeber this summer me in this boy were dating i mean it was cool for a while then i went to new york he didnt pay his phone bill so when i got a hold to him i asked him wats up in stuff like dhat well me n him said we had nuttin to hide in stuff so one day i went on his page in i saw a message from his ex gurl friend in it said sum nasty stuff so i asked him about it he lied about it in stuff i left it alone den the gurl wrote me talkin stuff i was mad in i left him so in my case me in him back together so i think what you did was wrong because just like dhat gurl i cant trust him

By: deltic

deltic — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 20:48:48 +0000

It is surprising how much you can find out about someone’s internet activity, and you don’t need to be a computer expert to do it.

By: Taggart

Taggart — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 12:52:19 +0000

Regarding what Harris said about inboxes, I think it’s entirely possible to find incriminating pictures on Facebook just by looking at someone’s album or wall. This has been an issue in the past when people have questionable content online when they’re applying for a job, too.

By: deltic

deltic — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 07:03:10 +0000

You did exactly the right thing, don’t keep going over and over it in your head. Put it behind you and enjoy time with your friends, he is not worth wasting your time on.

By: Justontime

Justontime — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:56:34 +0000

I think ending it swiftly and making the facts known to those who may have needed to know was the right thing to do. It was also wise to forget him and get on with your life after that.

By: Anon

Anon — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:14:41 +0000

Men like variety, and women are possessive of their men. You could be the perfect girlfriend, great sex, laid back, NOT INSECURE, and given the opportunity a good 95% of men would still have sex with someone else on the slick because in the male mind liking variety and caring about a girlfriend are not mutually exclusive. Further more, if this archetypal male has things like a high social status and/or a good amount of money, you can expect him to sleep with lots and lots of other women instead of just every now and then, because the reason men aspire to high social status and riches is that more and prettier women will have sex with them, the rest is just window dressing, to the point that you can expect the vast majority of politicians and business executives to have either a mistress or a rolodex of good call girls (which are very different types of cheating, hell, under the Victorian standard of marriage women tolerated prostitutes and men used them because it was improper to ask a respectable middle class wife to satisfy a man’s carnal fantasies, thats what whores were for). Women cheat almost as often as men, if not in parity, but they are better at not getting caught and usually have different motivations. For the male, its entirely about the act, 5 minutes later the side piece may well as not exist. Women cheat, but usually they only start cheating when the guy they are with has started to disappoint them in some way or another (which happens almost always, I think >50% of marriages end in divorce, and 75% of divorce is initiated by the woman -US numbers anyway ) They will cheat with the same person over and over and develop emotional ties, and this person will almost always be a trade up in social status/cashflow over the guy being cheated on, if not then it comes down to sexual prowess. The other source is always ex’s for girls, because that way their ‘number’ doesn’t change.
I think the biggest disconnect between the genders is when men cheat, on average it has nothing at all to do with how they feel about their girlfriend, and when women cheat, it has everything to do with how they feel about their current boyfriend.