Comments on: Boyfriend Sneaky About Online Dating

By: angel

angel — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 20:15:44 +0000

My man has been doing the online thing for 3 yrs. Then I found out he’s doing txting on his phone. He lied about everything so I went threw the comp n phone. Won’t do that again I thought I wanted to know. He has been cheating now for 3 yrs n making me feel crazy like I was pyscho n making things up. I am now struggling with the anxiety pain n anger. I made him tell me why he said I dnt know huh I made a username n caught him. He begged the girl to. Come n mmm him. He dnt even know her wtf right

By: angel

angel — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 19:00:00 +0000

So I kept digging n I found that he hasn’t just been talking he’s been hving sex also. I got a bad bacteria infection he blamed it on me. He’s been hell. I find myself now looking back saying what is wrong with me why did I deal. He always says he srry n that he will change. I believed him. He is always home. The only time we r apart is when we r at work n we hv 3 kids. So whoevers home has them. He’s been leavin work to do this crap. So I called one # on his phone for the last 6months this girl thought she had a new man was happy till she talked to me. He says the same things to both of us that makes me sick. He gave both of us infections yeast uti bladder n now pid. I’m waiting on the rest of my test results. This girl was a hoe alls she cared was that she mmm him she told every detail. We ended up fighting because she was outtaline when I found out who she was.she works at the gas station we go to all the time. She had to of known about me we was in there with our kids together. So he claims it was a game when a cute girl would b seen he would say I can get that n then he would. The online thin is a sick addiction. Most of the girls on there r actually men.

By: angel

angel — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 08:15:18 +0000

So now he’s srry because I know everything. He’s trying to keep me. But when I look at him I feel sick. I still have a hard time walking away. I hvnt gotten to the I hate you point. Friends isn’t working because I still have love for him. I need some advice on how to let go. Without being drawn back in

By: angel

angel — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 08:00:01 +0000

Some men just cnt help it they r angry inside or hv unsolved issues n cheating is there way of acting out. He was missing nothing at home. He did take me for stupid tho n for granted.

By: deltic

deltic — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 00:24:16 +0000

Whatever he is doing he finds it necessary to hide it and to lie about it. Why waste time on a man like that

By: justontime

justontime — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 00:18:13 +0000

You have such a way with words Stav! I have to agree with you, slime seems to sum up his behaviour.

By: stav

stav — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 17:37:46 +0000

Ditch the slime and find a man that will respect you more.

Does he really think you are so dumb that you won’t question why he usues his son’s login when you are around? (Molly he signs in as his boy so his girlfriend can’t view HIS history.)

By: justontime

justontime — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:48:34 +0000

That is right Taggart. It involves good communication early on in the relationship to address things like this and set the ground rules.

By: Taggart

Taggart — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 12:54:54 +0000

Deltic makes a point that I think is valid – Everyone should be on the same page in terms of what is considered “real” regarding online activities. What some view as harmless can have serious affects to others.

By: mollyL

mollyL — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:52:21 +0000

Sounds like his son has access to some pretty inappropriate stuff on the computer if this loser uses his son’s name to find women, and probably worse! Doesn’t sound like father material to me…dump him.