13 Responses

• SageMother on July 3rd, 2009 at 3:09 pm

  This might sound harsh so apologies in advance…..

  I’m wondering why you are still with him.

  Yes, you should leave hem. Each time he does this, he spits in your face.

• Justontime on July 4th, 2009 at 1:06 pm

  Only you know if you should leave him (I would!) but if you choose to stay you can be sure that whatever he is doing now will continue and get worse. Is this the sort of man you want? If you can’t trust him what is left?

• sandy on July 10th, 2009 at 7:26 pm

  Duh,
  should u leave him? He’s already sneaking around behind your back. R u waiting to get pregnant or catch a disease before u dump him? Smarten up and lose the loser. He doesn’t love u. He’s using u.

• Justontime on July 13th, 2009 at 11:52 pm

  Some men never seem to be able to leave this sort of thing alone. It makes him unreliable, unsuitable as a long term partner, dishonest even, but I think it is important that you shouldn’t take it as a personal rejection. He is doing it because that is what he does, it is unlikely to be because of anything you have done or faled to do. This sort of man will make you a lot of promises but he will carry on doing the same old thing.

• Taggart on July 30th, 2009 at 5:55 am

  Unless this is a very casual relationship, I think you should leave him. I don’t get the impression that it is casual for you though.

  I’d say if his activities were harmless, he wouldn’t need to lie about them.

• chris1203 on August 12th, 2009 at 8:29 pm

  I absolutely think that you should leave him but, of course, this must be your decision. But I think that, at the very least, he is disrespecting you.

• deltic on August 13th, 2009 at 8:35 am

  Taggart says that if his activities were harmless he wouldn’t need to lie about it. That sounds totally logical to a femail, but some men will lie about the silliest things. He may not see any of the online stuff as real. I think this is all about him, not a rejection of you, but he really dosn’t sound like someone worth bothering with.

• Orrymain on October 25th, 2009 at 2:56 am

  Anytime someone is straying it’s pretty obvious that they aren’t as invested in the relationship as you are so yeah, it’s time to move on and find someone who devotes themselves just to you.

• Imaginary Diva on November 10th, 2009 at 7:57 pm

  Why on earth would you question this?
  He’s obvously not interested in you as a partner anymore.
  Leave. it’s time to find someone who wants a lasting relationship.

• justontime on November 11th, 2009 at 2:08 am

  It looks as if we are all giving the same advice, this man is not someone to plan your future with

• heretoday on November 11th, 2009 at 1:28 pm

  What do you want with a lying sneak? If he does this online, what does he do when your back is turned? Lose him.

• mollyL on November 13th, 2009 at 2:52 pm

  Sounds like his son has access to some pretty inappropriate stuff on the computer if this loser uses his son’s name to find women, and probably worse! Doesn’t sound like father material to me…dump him.

• Taggart on November 14th, 2009 at 5:54 am

  Deltic makes a point that I think is valid – Everyone should be on the same page in terms of what is considered “real” regarding online activities. What some view as harmless can have serious affects to others.