Your last relationship was so beautiful and you still love your ex partner even though you are not together anymore. You don’t exclude the possibility of meeting other people but when you at least expect you start thinking about your ex. And maybe you are thinking of making up with your ex. If this is what you are thinking then you have to forget all the unpleasant things that caused the break up.

1. Disappear from you ex life … temporarily It is obvious that both of you had enough time and space to think about what happened and what should you do next. It is best to disappear for a while and let your ex to wonder where you are or what are you doing. If it was your fault then you really need to give your ex more time to calm down. Even though our ex is sad or even hurt, your ex knows that was not your intention. All the beautiful moments spend together will always be in your ex mind and this is a great advantage for you.

2. Do not forget all those important days.

Don’t forget to send a Christmas card, a Happy Birthday message even though you are not together because this will definitely count. Even if your ex has many friends that call or send messages, it is possible that your ex partner might wait a message especially from you.

3. Go out with your friends but make sure that your ex will find out.

Spend your time with friends and do not leave the impression that you are depressed because of the break up. Try to make your ex jealous but do not flirt with other people. Probably, your ex will occupy the time with different activities but the chances of meeting another partner are very slim. If it happens to be both invited by common friend to a party, you should accept but find a reason to excuse yourself and leave early. Your ex partner will definitely wonder where are you going.

4. Find different motives to meet.

Daily or weekly, it would be nice to call your ex just to say hi. Learn how and where your ex spends free time in order to be able to meet your ex just by coincidence.

5. Get close and then very subtle push your ex away.

People always want something that is not able to obtain. In this case, we are talking about ex partners, two people that know each other habits, weaknesses, character; it is less probable to find something surprising about each other after the break up. You need a new attitude to attract attention. Making somebody jealous it is not very nice but is the only advantage that you have. When you meet with your ex be friendly, touch your ex from time to time when you are talking like hands or back. And smile but not too much. When your ex answers back to your affection then you should retreat and be distant. The idea is to make your ex to start looking for you.

6. Be patient and tactful

If it was your fault that you two broke up then it would very difficult to keep contact but not impossible. First you need to prove that your ex was wrong about you. For example you need to prove that you have common sense. Don’t send rude messages and be tolerant especially when your ex will try getting revenge using different ways. Patience should be your secret weapon

7. Make sure you look impeccable.

Don’t forget that your image is very important especially when you meet your ex after some time after the break up. It is a good idea to go to the gym or buy some new clothes. Your physical appearance should not leave the impression that the break up had a negative impact on you.

Why I should not make up with my ex? – Here are some reasons:

• You might miss the chance to meet somebody new and you could have a happy relationship;
• May be you ex cheated on you;
• The reasons of you break up are too painful and even if you make up, you still feel that pain;
• There are very good chances that you might repeat those mistakes from the past;
• You still have in your mind those unpleasant memories of your relationship;
• You both changed so much that you might not be compatible.

About the Author – Isabela

T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up“. And you know, it worked like magic for many couples. Now they are more in love than ever. For a free video guide click here.