Comments on: Infidelity: Difference Between a Rage and Revenge Affair http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Mon, 05 Jul 2010 10:48:39 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: heretoday http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-161273 heretoday Tue, 24 Nov 2009 20:52:01 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-161273 On further reflection, how childish it all seems. We are supposed to work our way through and mature about these things before we ever marry. Especially when there are kids involved, how sad for them seeing their parents take on like this. On further reflection, how childish it all seems. We are supposed to work our way through and mature about these things before we ever marry. Especially when there are kids involved, how sad for them seeing their parents take on like this.

]]> By: heretoday http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-160080 heretoday Tue, 10 Nov 2009 04:58:20 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-160080 What is wrong with some people? How can love turn so sour? True love is forever, everyone else needs to sort out their priorities. What is wrong with some people? How can love turn so sour? True love is forever, everyone else needs to sort out their priorities.

]]> By: Justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-149585 Justontime Fri, 17 Jul 2009 09:48:20 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-149585 If my partner had either type of affair he would get plenty of attention - from my solicitor, because we would be heading for the divorce court! If my partner had either type of affair he would get plenty of attention – from my solicitor, because we would be heading for the divorce court!

]]> By: Taggart http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-146546 Taggart Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:58:49 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-146546 I think that the article does touch on psychological factors that may be beyond the scope of the individual relationship. I can see that becoming a very complex topic. I think that the article does touch on psychological factors that may be beyond the scope of the individual relationship. I can see that becoming a very complex topic.

]]> By: SageMother http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-146266 SageMother Sun, 07 Jun 2009 19:29:22 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-146266 I'm not sure if separating the types of affairs-revenge or rage-helps. For some, the fact that there is an affair will block any hope of reconciliation. I’m not sure if separating the types of affairs-revenge or rage-helps. For some, the fact that there is an affair will block any hope of reconciliation.

]]> By: poster25 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-145532 poster25 Wed, 27 May 2009 23:30:11 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-145532 When it comes to an affair, nothing good comes out of it no matter what type it is called or what the intentions were originally. When it comes to an affair, nothing good comes out of it no matter what type it is called or what the intentions were originally.

]]> By: chris1203 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-145471 chris1203 Wed, 27 May 2009 01:50:23 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-145471 This article has some good points, although I think that there is a fine line between a rage affair and a revenge affair sometimes. This article has some good points, although I think that there is a fine line between a rage affair and a revenge affair sometimes.

]]> By: Taggart http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-145420 Taggart Tue, 26 May 2009 12:33:56 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-145420 I tend to think that the rage affair as mentioned above may be more difficult to get over if the couple is trying to repair the relationship. There are some interesting points made above about how this differs from someone who simply feels that their needs aren't being met. I tend to think that the rage affair as mentioned above may be more difficult to get over if the couple is trying to repair the relationship.

There are some interesting points made above about how this differs from someone who simply feels that their needs aren’t being met.

]]> By: katie http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/05/infidelity-difference-between-a-rage-and-revenge-affair.html/comment-page-1#comment-145357 katie Mon, 25 May 2009 18:15:25 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=960#comment-145357 I have been married for 20 years now. I just found out that my husband has been having an affair with one woman. In the process of finding this information, I wanted to make sure that it was not still going on but to my amazement, I found out that he was involved with another woman he worked with and then another outside of her. He is also involved with another married woman on top of all of these but still, he says he meant nothing with any of them and they were just there when he needed to do what he needed to do. In essence, he was cheating on the other woman with another woman after the first woman and he broke it off. I think he is still involved with at least two of the women but he will never admit it and right now, I could care less because I won't let him touch me even though he is begging for us to get back together. I did not know anything about any of them because he was still pretending to be the husband of no change. He sucks as a father too but I would never let him know that. I caught one of the women coming from the house then I caught him over to her house. I found notes and emails from the woman he works with and they are very engaging but he still says that nothing happened. He says that she's lonely and she wants him but he does not want her. The notes tell a different story though and I know he is lying but poor thing thinks he's believed. However, during conversation with him he said all of what he said to them meant nothing and he just did what they let him do. He meant nothing he has said to them but he still said it and of course, I don't believe crap he has said or is saying now. My feelings have diminished a bit for him but he wants the marriage to continue and is willing to go to counseling but I am just not interested in him anymore since he has been with those whores. How can a woman get over this and move on without him and be happy about it. He is forgiven but the idea of him touching me makes me vomit especially when you see what he was playing around with. They knew of course that he was married but I guess desperate women will do desperate things but it appears that he was more desperate than they were but they can have each other. Okay group, what about it? Katie I have been married for 20 years now. I just found out that my husband has been having an affair with one woman. In the process of finding this information, I wanted to make sure that it was not still going on but to my amazement, I found out that he was involved with another woman he worked with and then another outside of her. He is also involved with another married woman on top of all of these but still, he says he meant nothing with any of them and they were just there when he needed to do what he needed to do. In essence, he was cheating on the other woman with another woman after the first woman and he broke it off. I think he is still involved with at least two of the women but he will never admit it and right now, I could care less because I won’t let him touch me even though he is begging for us to get back together. I did not know anything about any of them because he was still pretending to be the husband of no change. He sucks as a father too but I would never let him know that. I caught one of the women coming from the house then I caught him over to her house.

I found notes and emails from the woman he works with and they are very engaging but he still says that nothing happened. He says that she’s lonely and she wants him but he does not want her. The notes tell a different story though and I know he is lying but poor thing thinks he’s believed. However, during conversation with him he said all of what he said to them meant nothing and he just did what they let him do. He meant nothing he has said to them but he still said it and of course, I don’t believe crap he has said or is saying now. My feelings have diminished a bit for him but he wants the marriage to continue and is willing to go to counseling but I am just not interested in him anymore since he has been with those whores. How can a woman get over this and move on without him and be happy about it. He is forgiven but the idea of him touching me makes me vomit especially when you see what he was playing around with. They knew of course that he was married but I guess desperate women will do desperate things but it appears that he was more desperate than they were but they can have each other. Okay group, what about it?

Katie

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