My boyfreind and I have been together for 9months. We moved in together a couple months ago to my home in California. He end up moving out to being laid off two months later. I was hurt and angry that he left and went back to Texas (his home and other job offer) Since I was taking bad and we began having problems and arguing all the time almost everyday. Most of which was phone converstations because we are long distance now.

Things finally starting getting back on track 2 weeks ago when he flew out here to see me. The weekend away camping did us alot of good and I started to finally feel happy and okay with us. I stopped being so angry.

A bad relationship is one that involves continual frustration; the relationship seems to have potential but that potential is always just out of reach. And you need to know how freeing it is to understand that a bad relationship is not your fault.

The first reason to get out of a bad relationship is for the emotional health and well-being of both parties. Another reason is to make sure that the emotions and arguments that often exist in such a relationship does not escalate to physical violence by either party. Staying together despite your current situation and ignoring the fact that there is a problem is often delaying the inevitable. By doing so, you are actually committing an act of selfishness and egotism.

In the beginning of your relationship he was the loving, caring, and understanding person that you’ve always wanted, but somewhere along the line he changed. Your relationship began with such passion, excitement and a promise of a bright future. Suddenly, you wake up one day and your relationship is shattered. Most of the passion that existed in your relationship is gone, and he says “I am not in love with you anymore,” or “I don’t feel the same way about you.

Relationships are not perfect and this is proven time and time again when couples go through troubled periods. Taking an honest inventory and accepting facts without self deprecation is the primary goal in saving your relationship. It encompass:

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Oh my god, it still fresh this thing happen last tuesday3/3/09 i caught my husband chatting with filipina.

Im 43 filipina, my husband 54 half american half italian.married for 3 yrs.no kid He said he is bored and tired, and he dont love no more. the hard part here is I didnt see any changes from him that he is falling for this girl.because the way he treat care me is the same.