Comments on: Is He Cheating On Me?

By: justontime

justontime — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 16:40:09 +0000

Go back and read what Poster25 wrote, it sums up the situation very well. I am sure your instincts are right.

By: Taggart

Taggart — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 13:40:33 +0000

Actually, it would be kind of odd if he went out clubbing with an old female friend but wasn’t comfortable if you were there – I assume that’s the situation?

I agree, it looks like he may not be on the level with you.

By: ms nunu

ms nunu — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 15:54:57 +0000

i been wit my fiance for a long time. we was on and off while in highschool cuz he was always cheating on me but since we graduated we been together for 3 strong years but he dont want me to touch his fone he act like he hiding sumthin cuz he’s always sneaking to check it and he has a female name in it as a guy’s name and was txt her “goodmorning beautiful” he said he put her name as that cuz he knew i would clown on him but she’s just an older lady from work yea rite what should i do? im not marying nobody i cant trust

By: sandy

sandy — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 02:44:57 +0000

If you marry him then he will have a servant at home (you) to do all his chores while he goes out and parties with other women. Is that what you want? To be his maid?

By: Taggart

Taggart — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 13:53:26 +0000

I think it’s hard to tell what may be going on from the information you’ve provided.

It could be a harmless friendship with the others. Being engaged or married shouldn’t mean that someone can’t socialize with others, although those situations sometimes lead to problems. Is there a specific reason you’re reluctant to trust him?

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 16:41:28 +0000

I think that you already know everything that you need to know. He does not seem very committed to you at all. Listen to you instincts and “kick him to the curb.”

By: poster25

poster25 — Sun, 17 May 2009 15:37:02 +0000

Why can’t he party with you around?

He’s going out with an old friend who still likes him…..who is also bringing other girlfriends with her? And you can’t go with him? This does not sound right to me.

Does this sound right to you? Listen closely!

By: justontime

justontime — Fri, 08 May 2009 10:55:16 +0000

I trust my instincts, if I feel that there is something not quite right, I follow it up. Usually there is a reason fot those nagging doubts.

By: kernow

kernow — Thu, 07 May 2009 23:42:28 +0000

Katharina is right about following your instinct, if you have reason to doubt take a very close look at what is going on.

By: Katharina

Katharina — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 17:03:02 +0000

I agree with the other posters about the trust issue, but also about his going out on his own. I think he should plan for the two of you to do things together instead of going off on his own.

And following your gut instinct is very important before it’s too late and you find you have the same issues after you’re married.