Comments on: Are Your Really Ready For A Relationship http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Thu, 26 Aug 2010 20:54:23 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Katharina http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html/comment-page-1#comment-142528 Katharina Mon, 20 Apr 2009 13:33:06 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=830#comment-142528 Yes, kernow... isn't that bizarre how that happens?! Of course I think a lot of times, they WANT a child without having the "burden" of a relationship. If that's the case, I sure hope that both parties agreed! Yes, kernow… isn’t that bizarre how that happens?! Of course I think a lot of times, they WANT a child without having the “burden” of a relationship. If that’s the case, I sure hope that both parties agreed!

]]> By: kernow http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html/comment-page-1#comment-141940 kernow Mon, 13 Apr 2009 16:58:41 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=830#comment-141940 katharina, I think having time before the baby is ideal, but even now too many people find themselves with a baby before they are sure that they want the relationship! katharina, I think having time before the baby is ideal, but even now too many people find themselves with a baby before they are sure that they want the relationship!

]]> By: Katharina http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html/comment-page-1#comment-141870 Katharina Sun, 12 Apr 2009 21:05:45 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=830#comment-141870 I think (unless I'm totally missing something) that the trend of the last decade or so to have to marry because of a pregnancy is finally starting to reverse a bit. That's great, of course, because the couple can have at least a little bit of time for themselves before that first little joyful bundle joins them. Time to grow, mature, and get to know each other. I think (unless I’m totally missing something) that the trend of the last decade or so to have to marry because of a pregnancy is finally starting to reverse a bit.

That’s great, of course, because the couple can have at least a little bit of time for themselves before that first little joyful bundle joins them. Time to grow, mature, and get to know each other.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html/comment-page-1#comment-106372 justontime Sun, 15 Mar 2009 16:03:27 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=830#comment-106372 I don't think anything can really prepare you for the changes that a child brings to a relationship. I don’t think anything can really prepare you for the changes that a child brings to a relationship.

]]> By: deltic http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html/comment-page-1#comment-104101 deltic Sun, 15 Mar 2009 00:40:24 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=830#comment-104101 It isn't just the two of you any more. Suddenly there is this demanding little person who you love so powerfully that your life is turned inside out. On top of that there is the total exhaustion and the changes to the woman's body, it takes a lot of adjustment It isn’t just the two of you any more. Suddenly there is this demanding little person who you love so powerfully that your life is turned inside out. On top of that there is the total exhaustion and the changes to the woman’s body, it takes a lot of adjustment

]]> By: tater03 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html/comment-page-1#comment-99611 tater03 Fri, 13 Mar 2009 18:07:38 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=830#comment-99611 Isn't it amazing how much your life changes after kids? Some for the better and some I don't want to say bad, but just that you have to find time for yourselves as a couple. Isn’t it amazing how much your life changes after kids? Some for the better and some I don’t want to say bad, but just that you have to find time for yourselves as a couple.

]]> By: deltic http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html/comment-page-1#comment-99271 deltic Fri, 13 Mar 2009 15:49:51 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=830#comment-99271 Tater I agree absolutely, it was several years before we had children and I am so glad we had time to build that really solid relationship, because things change for ever once children come along. Tater I agree absolutely, it was several years before we had children and I am so glad we had time to build that really solid relationship, because things change for ever once children come along.

]]> By: tater03 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/03/are-your-really-ready-for-a-relationship.html/comment-page-1#comment-95996 tater03 Thu, 12 Mar 2009 17:27:42 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=830#comment-95996 You bring up some very good points. I found that when you are ready for a relationship before having children you really need to get a solid foundation. Because having children was the biggest relationship change for my husband and I and without that solid foundation we would have never made it this far. You bring up some very good points. I found that when you are ready for a relationship before having children you really need to get a solid foundation. Because having children was the biggest relationship change for my husband and I and without that solid foundation we would have never made it this far.

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