So you are walking down the street… there he is, and he is with another girl….Ouch that hurts… Your head is spinning! All day long you have been miserable and thinking, how can I get my ex back? On top of that you heard he had moved on… And there they are… together. Well get a hold of yourself… It is possible to get your ex back even when he has moved on!

I have 7 easy steps to share with you on things that you can do to stop the hurt and be together again with your ex.

1). Desire is step 1. Re-build the desire he had for you… I bet you can easily remember the love you two had in days gone by. The way he held you, how it made you feel. The way he looked at you and you could feel his love. That is desire. Re-connect with it yourself so you can re-create it again. Creating desire is step 1.

2). Friendship is next. You most likely started as friends. You need to become friends again. Breaking up can be a very emotional experience. Very painful and traumatic! This is the hardest part about the 7 easy steps… the emotions involved. If you do not get them under control you will have a very difficult time getting you ex back. So be friendly, be relaxed, be supportive and positive, most of all be fun to be around. No arguments, no hassles. Just be pleasant.

3). Ok now that we have built desire and become easy to around and have a friendly atmosphere to be together in. Time to get a little flirty, nothing major, just a smile…or a touch. But keep it easy going, build up to it!

4). Now while this is happening make sure to take time to be with friends and have some fun. Not to make him jealous, even though a little jealousy, a very little can be fun. The point is be happy, and have fun as this evolves.

5). I pointed out earlier that emotions need to be controlled. Two emotions that can be a problem are depression and desperation… One seems to lead to the other and create and real problem. You can not get your ex back if you spiral into a desperate depressed state. Stay positive.

6). Once you get your emotions under control it is time to improve or step up the level of flirting. Nothing drastic, keep it playful and fun yet go for it. Create desire in a more sexual way.

7). Now it is time to get sentimental. Once you have his undivided attention and find that right moment by flirting bring up the best of your past relationship. Get him to remember how great it was, how much you to loved each other. You two were once in love, now is the time to bring it back.

Good luck, stay connected to your goal of getting your ex back even if he has moved on. If you need more advice make sure to check my bio for a link to my blog where I have a lot more advice on getting your ex back.

About the Author

Lee Clarke Helping those suffering the heart break of separation heal their wounds and get back together. Check out my blog for more tips and advice on surviving a break up and getting your loved one back. http://GetYourExBackWithTheMagicOfMakingUp.blogspot.com