A controversial new book from Adams Media by award-winning couples and relationship therapist Joel Block, Ph.D. and relationship expert, Kimberly Dawn Neumann breaks it down. The Real Reasons Men Commit: Why He Will-or Won’t-Love, Honor, and Marry You gets women to stop wasting time on men that have no interest in marriage. According to TV/stage star and People magazine’s Hottest Bachelor of the Year, Mario Lopez, “This book does a great job of explaining to women what goes on in the minds of men when it comes to commitment.”
Single women have heard all the creative — and not so creative excuses — from the commitment-phobic men in their lives–and, too often they’ve been taken in by these excuses and helped perpetuate them. “Accepting his excuses and making excuses for him is disastrous,” states Block and Neumann, “the key is to learn why he hesitates, and what you can do about it.”
This book goes beyond the standard dos and don’ts as it teaches women how spot a man who is interested in marriage from the first date. The secrets contained in this book are priceless for women looking for a commitment-ready man. From strategies to persuade commitment-phobic men to take the chance on love and marriage to learning what factors influence a man’s decision to commit, Block and Neumann teach the difference between cold feet and an intractable single-forever stance. Women who follow their lead will be sporting a ring by next Valentine’s Day!
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It’s easy to spot a commitment-phobic man from a mile away. He’s the one constantly looking over his shoulder looking for the next best thing, while trying to carry on a conversation w/you. He’s the one who breaks out in hives when he sees you have a child. Or he’s the one hemming and hawing when you ask him what he’s like for dinner.
I think there are also many women that are afraid of commitment. But in the guy’s case, I think that until they actually fall in love like crazy, in love that it hurts when they are not with the person they love, then, they get rid of commitment phobia without even thinking about it!
There are men who just is not ready to settle, they prefer to play the field for a while, sow their oats. It does take a dynamic woman to capture the hearts of these men
I think it is fairly easy to spot the men who shy away from commitment, because it shows up very early in a relationship.
I agree that if they are afraid of commitment it will show up fairly early on. I know some men were afraid until the woman decided she wasn’t going to wait anymore and moved on. Then they realized they weren’t as scared of commitment as they first thought.
A man who is afraid of commitment soon shows up for what he is. I know a few women who don’t want commitment either.
Why are we always so hard on men, these days there are lots of women who are not looking for commitment either.
My first impression was similar to deltic’s point.
Not every woman is looking for marriage. And I can think of examples of couples who seem to want to be engaged, but have no idea when they actually may get married.
While separating the commitment phobic from the commitment ready man is good, the tips on convincing the commitment phobic male to settle down sound interesting.
The tips are all very interesting, but why would anyone want to force a commitment phobic man into marriage? It is too serious to force anyone to do it unwillingly.