After consulting with thousands of women and men in his law practice as a divorce attorney, the author was surprised at how little thought most people give to their choice of a marriage partner. A big fan of marriage, the author decided to share his 22 years of experience in the hopes of promoting happy and successful marriages, thereby reducing the number of divorces and broken homes.
Whether preparing for a sporting event, a sales presentation, or marriage, the key to success is preparation. \”How To Marry Smart, A Divorce Attorney\’s Advice On How To Tell The Winners From The Losers When Choosing Your Spouse,\” was written with the intention of helping people make the most important decision of their life–choosing a marriage partner, an intelligent decision, one based on more than hormones and a nice smile. Combining logic with romance is not only possible, it\’s a darn good idea.
The 261 easy-to-read, straight-forward questions, ideas, and real-life examples included in \”How To Marry Smart, A Divorce Attorney\’s Advice On How To Tell The Winners From The Losers When Choosing Your Spouse\” are designed to help the reader make an informed, intelligent decision about who they should…or should not marry, which will dramatically increase the chances of a happy, successful marriage.
Regardless of where the reader is in her relationship; dating or already engaged, the information in \”How To Marry Smart, A Divorce Attorney\’s Advice On How To Tell The Winners From The Losers When Choosing Your Spouse\” will help the reader determine, earlier rather than later, whether the relationship is worth pursuing.
For additional information on \”How To Marry Smart, A Divorce Attorney\’s Advice On How To Tell The Winners From The Losers When Choosing Your Spouse,\” contact Robert Busch or visit www.HowToMarrySmart.com.
About the author: A practicing attorney for more than 22 years, Robert Busch earned his B.A. degree from the University of California, Davis, and his law degree from McGeorge School of Law, University of the Pacific.
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E-mail: rjeffbusch (at) gmail (dot) com
Website: www.HowToMarrySmart.com
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That sounds interesting, I am sure he could offer some good advice – if only love (or lust) didn’t get in the way of common sense.
I never thought about it but I guess that a divorce lawyer just might have some great information when looking for that certain someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Maybe something like this should be required reading at age 14 before our emotions get in the way of common sense!
justontime, I know you were joking but it is not such a bad idea! Young people should have a mre realistic idea of relationships before they get married.
I think sadly a lot of young people are seeing how divorce effects everyone in a family. Which is a sad thing to have to say.
Too many see the consequences of divorce but too few see a strong marriage or understand the need for compromise.
That is a good point, if children haven’t grown up observing the normal give and take of marriage they may have unrealistic expectations when they are of an age to consider marriage.
I agree that in today’s world children don’t get to see a stable and loving relationship a lot of the time.
Don’t you think that some people get so fixed on planning the wedding, the dress, the venue, the catering etc that they don’t ever look beyond it to the reality of ordinary married life. I think that is where a lot of problems start.
I think that some are just not ready for when the marriage loses the newlywed stage and are not prepared to have to make it work.
Yes, they have bought into the fairy tale wedding and all the trimmings, but they have’t understood that married life is not a fairy tale. It is a real committment and the relationship needs time and effort to thrive.
Somehow we need to help young people in their early teens understand this, hopefully it could help them to avoid a lot of unhappiness.
I guess that is why after the first year of marriage and the newlywed period ends they have a harder time adjusting.
Reading this article and the responses, I found myself wondering something… with all the heartache and divorces kids see these days… well, it’s almost like “the norm” and I wonder if they subconsciously PLAN for a failed marriage somehow when they tie the knot.
If the thought is “oh, we’ll most likely divorce in a few years” then wouldn’t the incentive to try hard to make it work be lessened?
Katharina, you raise an interesting question. I think children can grow up well adjusted with divorced parents or with a single parent. I think the damage is really done when parents involve their kids in their arguments and use the children to hurt each other.
I think the attitude of the children will depend on how well their parents handled divorce.