Back in October I met a great guy..I mean really wonderful! He was a single dad with a deceased wife so him and I related on another level because I\’m a single mom. We were together for a couple months…I was falling for him, falling hard and he was telling me he could see himself in love with me and even made statements referring to how he could be my sons step father and us have a life together.

In December, I went to his house one night to question him about some things I was finding fishy with his job and his wife, that\’s dead, answered the door. I stopped communication with him and here recently he\’s back in my life.

Veteran divorce attorney Robert Busch has just released \”How To Marry Smart, A Divorce Attorney\’s Advice On How To Tell The Winners From The Losers When Choosing Your Spouse,\” a 47-page book written for anyone who wants help identifying potential and real red flags before they get to the altar, thereby increasing their odds of enjoying a happy and successful marriage.

After consulting with thousands of women and men in his law practice as a divorce attorney, the author was surprised at how little thought most people give to their choice of a marriage partner. A big fan of marriage, the author decided to share his 22 years of experience in the hopes of promoting happy and successful marriages, thereby reducing the number of divorces and broken homes.

Whenever I see an article about divorce, or watch a news or current affair report about life of divorcees it always seems to focus on the woman\’s plight and not any problems of men. Divorce & depression are partners for men after a marriage fails and recent reports have suggested that men take divorce a lot harder than women for a number of reasons.

These reasons are usually linked with women\’s ability to develop social networks that allow them to get the support, advice and help they need while men often do not have these things and try to be stoic in the face of a massively changed life with emotional turmoil building inside them. Marriage problems and the divorce often lead to one prominent emotional issue which is depression.

How do I find out if someone is married? – I listen to what they tell me.

You can become a human lie detector by learning how to talk to people, ask them the right questions and really listen to what they tell you. If someone is married but they don\’t want you to know then they will have to lie to you to keep the secret. All you have to do is detect the lies that you\’re being told. It isn\’t difficult once you understand the simple technique that anyone can learn. If they can lie about one thing then they can lie about not being married.