1. The cheaters feel miserable within the relationship
If we are talking about a woman this is generally the reason. Women trapped into a long unhappy relationship or marriage. For men, things are different – they feel the need of diversity and can’t refuse an opportunity because ”they want to live their life to the full!”
2. Affairs mean sex only
Some of them are like this and it is mainly because of the fact that what is forbidden is tempting. Usually, men can have a great sex partner but they also want understanding, support and a shoulder to cry on.
There are cheaters that do it only because they found a person who loves them unconditionally.
3. If somebody cheats it means he/she does not love his/her partner
Yes, it means lack of respect or interest of solving the problems in the couple, but not lack of love.
There are people that consider love different from sex and do not appreciate an affair as something to affect the love life.
4. Sex with the ex is not cheating
It actually is cheating and betrayal of your present lover, even if you once had a relationship with your ex. This relationship does not exist anymore.
5. Cheating does not count when the partner does not know
It counts even if you used protection, even if the person is unimportant to you, or even if nobody knows. Cheating is cheating.
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These myths are really something else, I feel sorry for the people who believes them.
Only the people involved can know why they cheated and what they wanted from the affair. I suspect it is different for each person. This article is far too general and a male writer can not possibly claim to know what women think or feel.
The article provides some good points for discussion, but doesn’t tell the whole story.
How long would an article have to be to tell the whole story?
I agree with all the points above! I believe cheating is cheating, even if it is only a kiss! And I believe that a cheater will always be a cheater. Once that barrier is crossed, it is very easy to cross it again and again!
how to get my ex girlfriend back fast…
You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love……
Sage Mother you are right about the article not telling the full story. I don’t think any article can tell the whole story, but there are some good points here.
I agree – The topic is very complex to be addressed in such a short article, but at the same time I think it presents some basic but valid points.
I’ve heard the opinion expressed before that sex and love can exist separately.