Comments on: Liar, Cheater And A Waste Of Time

By: kernow

kernow — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 10:02:06 +0000

Yes I guess we all have different stating points and different reactions. It makes me sad to think that people like T are being so badly used by their husbands, nobody deserves that and it will not get better while the women involved put up with it. It must be a very sad and lonely existance.

By: justontime

justontime — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 09:53:28 +0000

I agree with Kernow too. I don’t know why T. is so hurt and apparently unable to think straight, but I am sorry she is hurting so much. None of us know what is around the corner, I may think I know how I would react in her situation, but that is not the same as actually living through it. I just hope T finds the courage and strength to get through this and not end up bitter, angry and all alone.

By: Alex

Alex — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 04:26:19 +0000

kernow

I agree with your statement. It appears that T is a wife that is totally fine with a cheating husband. Maybe T is dealing with issues because the comment made absolutely no sense.

By: kernow

kernow — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 14:12:17 +0000

I can’t answer T’s comment because it really doesn’t make any sense. I am not sure it was helpful to bring God into the argument, but I would have thought that if you made your marriage vows before God,it would be even more important for the husband (and wife) to observe them. I would not tolerate a husband who had so little respect for me that he couldn’t be faithful.

By: justontime

justontime — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 14:06:13 +0000

Taggart I agree with you about T. It is hard to respond to an incoherent rant, I have read it three times and I still can’t make sense of it. I think T’s attitude is a million miles away from anything I recognise or understand. Surely marriage is an equal partnership, not ownership! T. I am sorry that something in your life has hurt you so badly, but you need to take a step back because you are not seeing things clearly.

By: Taggart

Taggart — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 13:40:06 +0000

I think T has some emotional issues to deal with from the sound of the above post. I’d be very curious to hear other responses to that post.

I’m not saying there’s absolutely no truth to it…

By: deltic

deltic — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 13:37:21 +0000

I’m sorry to say he has been using you. Be strong and have nothing more to do with him. You are worth more than that, don’t sell yourself short.

By: T

Sun, 26 Jul 2009 23:56:39 +0000

Guys,

This is the role of the other woman, to be there for his deposit in a sexual relationship. They know, we know that, and you know that so why tell them to run. I say stay there and let him screw you senseless cause it keeps him from wanting to screw us senseless. Just keep your regular appointments at the doctor’s office so that he doesn’t bring home the STDs. If you have the babies, then too damn bad for that too cause the poor child is going to be fatherless and I hope that is what you want. To have the child to get a few extra pennies in child support and no love or emotional support but that is again the role of the other woman. It’s just sad that you don’t know your role, I think we wives should create a job description for the other woman and post for her to know and hold her accountable when she is not doing her job. When he wakes at 4 am tapping for love, send him to the other woman for sex. That is my sentiment on this whole thing, let us use them like he is to help us in our role as the beautiful women we have been entrusted by God to be, which is the WIFE.

By: sandy

sandy — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 02:35:39 +0000

He only calls you for sex and an ego boost. Run as far away from him as you can.

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 20:19:19 +0000

This guy does sound like a liar, a cheater, and a “player” and you are better off without him!