I have been in a lesbian relationship for a year. She has a relationship with a guy she calls her bestfriend, whom she had sex with once and got pregnant. She had an abortion, but to make her feel better about it He bought her a house. Now I find that he also owns her car, takes her on trips, buys her expensive items and I am not allowed to go on the trips because ” he doesn’t really like a lot of people”. He just took her and a friend to vegas for her 30th b’day and I was not invited. I wasn’t even allowed to take them to the airport. I get extremely jealous when he takes her on trips or comes over and does things for her (like wash her clothes)that I could do myself. Her washer just went out and now he’s buying her a new one of those. She doesn’t see anything wrong with being financially dependant on him for everthing. I want to build a future with her, but I can’t make her see that we don’t have a future as long as she is dependent on him. Everytime I bring it up she goes into defense mode. I can not commit to this relationship as long as this is going on. How do I get her to see that this isn’t appropriate?

Your Plan: Confront my partner,Work it out,Leave my relationship