Comments on: How to Handle Your Emotions During Divorce http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Mon, 05 Jul 2010 10:48:39 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: debrajean http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-21192 debrajean Wed, 21 Jan 2009 10:33:17 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-21192 The only way I could cope during my divorce was to be away from him. I had to make a conscious decision not to talk to him. So many times, when I was on the phone for a conversation about our daughter and he would begin to make me angry, I would say simply to him, "you're making me angry and I can't talk to you anymore, so I'm hanging up." And I would. Of course he'd try ringing back, but, I'd leave the house and turn off the answering machine. Harsh, but it's the only way I made it through. The only way I could cope during my divorce was to be away from him. I had to make a conscious decision not to talk to him. So many times, when I was on the phone for a conversation about our daughter and he would begin to make me angry, I would say simply to him, “you’re making me angry and I can’t talk to you anymore, so I’m hanging up.” And I would. Of course he’d try ringing back, but, I’d leave the house and turn off the answering machine. Harsh, but it’s the only way I made it through.

]]> By: Sagemother http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20465 Sagemother Sun, 11 Jan 2009 01:28:30 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20465 In our state, people can choose mediation services instead of using attorneys. If you aren't on good terms, though, mediation can be worse than hiring an attorney. In our state, people can choose mediation services instead of using attorneys.

If you aren’t on good terms, though, mediation can be worse than hiring an attorney.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20404 justontime Sat, 10 Jan 2009 17:09:04 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20404 berlinlife it is good to know that some people manage to avoid all the animosity. I think the legal system can often make things worse for people. berlinlife it is good to know that some people manage to avoid all the animosity. I think the legal system can often make things worse for people.

]]> By: berlinlife06 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20361 berlinlife06 Sat, 10 Jan 2009 10:44:30 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20361 I was very lucky when I divorced my ex husband. We both were on the same side, thinking that we were happier when we were single, and not living together. So we went together to the same lawyer and it was very amicable. We even celebrated our singlehood by eating out together. I was very lucky when I divorced my ex husband. We both were on the same side, thinking that we were happier when we were single, and not living together. So we went together to the same lawyer and it was very amicable. We even celebrated our singlehood by eating out together.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20256 justontime Fri, 09 Jan 2009 17:27:09 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20256 I think this article is very good at explaining the confusion of emotions that people experience when facing divorce. I think this article is very good at explaining the confusion of emotions that people experience when facing divorce.

]]> By: Liza http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20204 Liza Fri, 09 Jan 2009 03:23:12 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20204 Hey Chris, I am glad you made it in your marriage so far, I hope the experience has made you wiser and stronger. Hey Chris, I am glad you made it in your marriage so far, I hope the experience has made you wiser and stronger.

]]> By: chris1203 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20124 chris1203 Wed, 07 Jan 2009 18:43:24 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20124 Wonderful article and advice. Although I did not divorce, I came very close, and I experienced all the emotions that this article pinpoints. Wonderful article and advice. Although I did not divorce, I came very close, and I experienced all the emotions that this article pinpoints.

]]> By: Liza http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20113 Liza Wed, 07 Jan 2009 14:42:20 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20113 I sincerely hope I will never have to swallow the bitter pill of divorce. It's too painful. I sincerely hope I will never have to swallow the bitter pill of divorce. It’s too painful.

]]> By: berlinlife06 http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20054 berlinlife06 Tue, 06 Jan 2009 13:35:29 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20054 I want to get me the inflatable hot tub! I don´t have too much space, but I guess in my living room could be possible to do it... I gotta try it at least! I want to get me the inflatable hot tub! I don´t have too much space, but I guess in my living room could be possible to do it… I gotta try it at least!

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2009/01/how-to-handle-your-emotions-during-divorce.html/comment-page-1#comment-20049 justontime Tue, 06 Jan 2009 12:30:49 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/?p=708#comment-20049 Sage that is a good point, it is all about being kind to yourself, I think different things would work for different people. Sage that is a good point, it is all about being kind to yourself, I think different things would work for different people.

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