Comments on: Healing a Broken Heart and Get Over a Break Up

By: riskey 58

riskey 58 — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 17:41:32 +0000

I agree the best thing to do is to make sure the you let yourself feel the emotions. If you don’t you are just pushing them down and they could come back in a not so constructive way.

By: tater03

tater03 — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 21:11:37 +0000

You are so right that the first few weeks are downright awful. You have to just let yourself be upset and know that you will get through it just not over night.

By: debrajean

debrajean — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 10:50:23 +0000

Getting through the first several weeks after a break-up is the hardest. The memories, his/her presence in your life lingers and the only thing you want to do is call h/her up to “talk”. Don’t. Distract yourself w/doing things and rely on friends and family to “talk”. Busy-ness is the only way to work it out. Of course, you’ll need the downtime, but use it sparingly and don’t dwell on the “might-have-beens.” You’ll get through, give it time. Good luck!

By: Liza

Liza — Sun, 01 Feb 2009 17:43:01 +0000

I agree with you Berlin, when it happens you feel as if life would stop, as if there is no future, but as time goes by, the heart heals.

By: berlinlife06

berlinlife06 — Sun, 01 Feb 2009 16:47:49 +0000

Getting ever a breakup is probably one of the hardest things I lived through. But time was necessary. There are no “fast solutions”, specially if one is really in love.