“The Cheating Spouse’s Cheat Sheet: 36 things every guy should know before he cheats” makes for a good read and is great advice not only for men, but also for women as well. As he points out, the green is not always greener on the other “side”.
You need to consider the what-if scenarios that cheaters don’t think about before having an affair: catching an STD, the partner your cheating with could be seriously psycho, your reputation in shreds once your name makes it on a website like WomenSavers.com (Stephany Alexander, owner and creator, of this powerful website is one of our guest writers) and dating multiple partners can cost a lot of money. The best part is ….. your “well motivated” girlfriend or boyfriend will catch you.
Yes, you’ll never get a lifetime pass to get away with cheating, especially with all the modern technology that is available at our fingertips!
If you think that your partner is cheating on you, PCWorld recommends the iPhone as an ideal present for the holidays. For $100 a year, you can have a software service like Mobile Spy implant an undetectable rat inside the phone that will give you access to phone numbers of all outbound / inbound calls and copies of SMS messages. There will be no more secrets between the two of you, that’s for sure!
YourSpy, a similar service, is another popular PC software solution that monitors in secret your partner’s online activities from emails, instant messaging conversations, to websites most visited. It even records every single keystroke made.
“Christmas office party is the perfect stage for affairs to start,” says Andy Felton, Director of YourSpy. “Sending emails or instant messages to their lover or viewing tagged images from the party on both office and home PC. These can all provide the evidence a spouse needs to confirm a suspicion of a relationship. It’s at this point that YourSpy comes into its own, because it does not lie.”
Oh, my….. It just doesn’t seem to be worth all that sneaking around!
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I am constantly amazed at the number of “on the job” affairs that develop.
The dangers of discovery pale in comparison to the damage that can be done to your professional reputation, which can kill your earning power!
I think this is a good article and great advice. If you choose to have an affair today, don’t count on taking the secret to your grave. We have ways, now, to find out about an affair.
I think people go for the “on the job” thinking that it will not affect them. I think that is one of the biggest mistakes. When it ends, the situation can become unbearable.
Do you think some of these affairs begin because they seem handy?
If you work with someone you can get your lunch hours matched up.
Could it be “ease of access”?
Sagemother, I believe that affairs start because both parties are willing to do something about it. I´ve had very very good friends at work, but it never went into an affair. Maybe the “ease of access” is part of the whole motivation.
Having an affair at work is likely to lead to problems for those involved, but when these things happe common senses seems to vanish.
I think that a lot of people do have affairs with coworkers because that’s the easiest place to truly get to know someone. However, if the relationship goes sour, it can be hell!
I am sure the article puts forward strong arguments for not cheating, but I don’t think most cheaters make a plan to cheat. I think that circumstances lead them into it, then once they have cheated they keep going and make their situation even worse
I hadn’t thought about whether or not people plan to cheat, maybe in a lot of cases it is because people put themselves in the wrong situations then they are surprised when things happen.
Maybe they don’t specificaly plan to cheat, but they seem willing enough to put themselve in situations that lead to cheating.