After a decade of working as a private investigator, Malik has caught countless of men that cheat on their wives and girlfriends. From his experiences, he\’s written an interesting article on why you shouldn\’t cheat.

You need to consider the what-if scenarios that cheaters don\’t think about before having an affair:

\”The Cheating Spouse\’s Cheat Sheet: 36 things every guy should know before he cheats\” makes for a good read and is great advice not only for men, but also for women as well. As he points out, the green is not always greener on the other \”side\”.

You need to consider the what-if scenarios that cheaters don\’t think about before having an affair:

You may not have heard the term before, but it is almost certain you have dealt with at least one emotional vampire in your life. These people are deceptively charming, beautiful and seductive, yet emotionally exhausting.

Emotional vampires are egotistical, manipulative, jealous, demanding, and self-serving. They are able to gain your friendship very quickly, then exploit it in every way they can to rob you of your own emotional energy. This person will take advantage of anyone in order to feed his or her own emotional needs. They will focus on the negative aspects of any situation, rather than enjoy the positive ones.