Comments on: JT Wants To Confront Him and The Other Woman

By: stav

stav — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 00:26:32 +0000

Going anywhere near this woman, who has the baby you’ve been longing for and not been able to have, would surely cause you nothing but pain.

By: Katharina

Katharina — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 23:21:32 +0000

Closure generally needs to have some positive results achieved. I can’t think of any for this besides inflicting even more pain on myself having to see this woman up close and personal.

*Maybe* a phone call to say what is needed to be said would bring the closure but not make the wound deeper… not sure.

By: deltic

deltic — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 21:09:47 +0000

I wouldn’t disagree with you Katharina, it would not be my way of dealing with the situation (at least I don’t think it would) but we are all different and perhaps for some people it brings some sort of closure.

By: Katharina

Katharina — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 23:12:12 +0000

I doubt that I would have confronted her either… to what end? The damage with the husband is already done and I would have most likely just left. Well no, had HIM leave.

Can’t see any positive that could have come from marching myself over to her house when he was there.

By: stav

stav — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 21:25:13 +0000

that is assuming that the other woaman wasn’t already fully aware that he was married, and just didn’t care.

By: deltic

deltic — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 21:21:06 +0000

That’s true Stave, I am not sure that I would have confronted the other woman, but if JT needed to do that at least she would have made him face the her with the truth. He wouldn’t be able to explain it away.

By: stav

stav — Mon, 27 Sep 2010 22:05:52 +0000

yes it would be interesting to see which advice was taken.. I personally would not bother with confronting the other woman, except maybe to let her know what a cheating lying rat she was g etting involved with… one thing about cheats… they are repeat offenders…

By: deltic

deltic — Sun, 26 Sep 2010 21:38:31 +0000

I was just wondering how this worked out? It was a brave step to confront him when he was with her, but I wonder if it was the best way to go as it would almost certainly have escalated the situation and made for a very acrimonious split.

By: mollyL

mollyL — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 21:36:31 +0000

Are you positive that your husband has never cheated on you before? Policemen rate pretty high on the infidelity list. They also have handguns; I’d think twice before confronting him.

By: Taggart

Taggart — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 12:26:48 +0000

I share the others’ concerns about confronting her at her house. I think that could be potentially dangerous, depending on the type of person you’re dealing with.