Im 21 years old, Ive been in a relationship with this girl for a year and a half and we have an apartment together we\’ve been in a rough situation for the past 3 months and I\’ve noticed she\’s been depressed for a while, we talked about it and she tells me that she doesnt know what she wants in life and that she lost her identity, and she sometimes misses her old party life.

I left to visit family back home 2 weeks ago, during our time apart she started to tell me that she wants to change things in her life from clothes to personality and friends also. I was worried that this change would include me also but never brought it up.

My Wife\’s parents ran into deep financial trouble about 8 years ago and moved into our home after their foreclosure. They have been here ever since and should have moved out long ago (they were in their early 50\’s when this happened). After 6 years I had enough with the loss of provacy (we have 3 young boys as well) and the intrusion. I spoke to my wife many times but the situation did not change. I have a professional career and the hours per week kept increasing and I spent more and more time traveling and working over the past two years. Two years ago as well I attended counciling with my wife and expressed my frustration with the living situation but was told it was not likely to change and I would need to see how I would handle this.

Five simple words that can cut down on all the emotional bullshit. It\’s so uncomplicated that it can\’t be misunderstood. Instead, most cheaters prefer to sweep their bad behavior under the carpet, and, when the crap starts to smell … and you know it will … they will deal with it.

BUT NOT BEFORE THEN.

I rationalized that L-O-V-E must be a mental disorder.

Love made me believe all the excuses as to why he didn\’t come home last night. Love made sense of all the untruths.