Sound Advice: I’m Financially Dependent On My Ex-Husband

She wants to move on with her life, but she is not ready, she has automatically become the other woman. Sometimes they(other woman) get better treatment than the girlfriend or the wife.

I think her ex likes it that way too, he’s using his money to have the best of both worlds.

Since her children are grown, they should be able to withstand any unpleasantness there may be. Grown ups can do that.

Instead of having conversations with him, she needs to rely on the courts. Otherwise, he will always have the upper hand with her on an emotional level.