Comments on: Responsible Husband And Sexy Lover – How Can You Be Both?

By: deltic

deltic — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 11:38:43 +0000

That is good advice, it sounds obvious that life is not a fairytale, but so many people don’t think ahead about the reality of marriage after the fairytale wedding.

By: justontime

justontime — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 11:18:34 +0000

Yes, that is an important point kernow we need to stay real and accept the realities of life, it will not always be perfect but we must make an effort to stay close.

By: kernow

kernow — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 10:44:24 +0000

It is important to make time for each other, but both should also be realistic, life and work are bound to get in the way, life isn’t a fairytale. It is just a case of staying close through the ups and downs.

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 03:30:11 +0000

I think that this is great advice. It’s very important for a couple to make time for each other because it is so easy to lose the spark among the life “stuff” that crops up.

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 16:17:23 +0000

I agree with most of the responses here. It’s too easy to let “life” interfere with you and your husband’s intimate life, and that can be a BIG mistak.

By: kernow

kernow — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 08:26:37 +0000

Molly’s advice about not neglecting each other is spot on. It is easier said than done, but it makes the world of difference in a relationship.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 21:20:37 +0000

Liza, I guess it’s because we see them on a daily basis and the “honeymoon phase” is over before you know it.

Life just tends to be more than a handful….

It’s good to have a husband that understands why it is the way it is…. and that he won’t go looking for any additional emotional or sexual involvement elsewhere.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 04:24:40 +0000

mollyL, way too go! I don’t think my mother (or grandmother) told me anything so cool as that on my wedding day.

By: justontime

justontime — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 21:43:31 +0000

Imaginary Diva wrote
justontime, neglecting our significant others because of work, kids, life….. just will not cut it.

We also have to remember that they need as much attention as everyone else around us.

….and they have to remember that once kids come along life changes for ever. If they play their part and share ALL the work and responsibility then it should be possible to still have ‘couple time’ but if they imagine that it will be ‘business as usual’ – forget it!!

By: berlinlife06

berlinlife06 — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 17:55:31 +0000

Making the effort is only half the work of keeping alive a relationship… it is a hard job to make it in marriage.