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I\’ve started commenting on other people\’s posts, so it is only fair that I tell my story. This will be very condensed: you can find a lot more detail on my blog http://hoseasblog.blogspot.com

My wife and I have been married 25 years. During that time she has had five affairs that I know about; she is currently involved in a very heavy-duty Internet flirtation (relationship) with a sixth guy, someone she has never met in person.

In all that time, I have stayed with her, and sometimes it is hard for me to understand why.

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You had an affair. Your partner knows. So what happens now?

You\’ve ended the affair and you\’ve promised it\’ll never happen again.

You want to stay married, move forward in your relationship, and put the affair behind you, but your partner will not be so quick to forgive and forget as you are.

This is a common situation that we often see in our marriage counseling practice.

While the offending partner usually wants to forget the affair and move on, the injured partner is still processing the pain and sorting through their feelings about the relationship.