Comments on: Catch A Man Cheating – What Do Wedded Men Feel Like After Cheating?

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:24:59 +0000

I think that monogamy is not a natural state for anyone, but perhaps especially not for men. But society puts these strictures on them, and most have to appear to conform. But at the first opportunity…

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 04:12:33 +0000

Liza, LOL! I’d really like to see that de-socialization happen.

Our ideas of committment are just so different from what they were during our parents time. I think that is the reason why we are so “socialized”…..

By: Sharon

Sharon — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 03:30:37 +0000

SageMother, I guess it just comes down to our natural pre-dispositions.

Women are geared to view relationships in one way and men in another way. Maybe it’s not more for the reason of male vs female, but more of how the society views what’s allowable.

Men have more looser views on what socially acceptable.

By: justontime

justontime — Sat, 25 Oct 2008 21:16:47 +0000

No I disagree. You are right some men cheat and some women cheat. I don’t think gender influences how guilty someone would feel. I think some people who cheat (male or female) would feel remorse while others would not feel guilty.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 25 Oct 2008 05:12:12 +0000

Justonetime, cheating is not only a past time that men do…. women also do it.

So, the question then should be…. do women feel remorseful after cheating?

I think so. Women would feel more guilt than a man would after cheating. Dont you think?

By: justontime

justontime — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 15:43:30 +0000

I think there are still a lot of decent men and women around, have respect for their partners and do not cheat. I am not sure cheating or selfishness is a generational problem, I suspect it has always happened but in the past women did not have the freedom to do much about it.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 04:54:03 +0000

mollyL, not all men are not cheaters and not all men get sick of being just with one woman. I really seriously believe that.

But again, we might be living a different generation. Today the generation is so different, where convenience breeds a certain type of selfishness.

Before I got married, I always told myself that I wanted the kind of marriage my parents had…. the til death do us part kind of deal. But it’s getting more and more harder to find.

By: Justontime

Justontime — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 09:35:11 +0000

Chris, perhaps you are right. I don’t think anyone except the cheater him/herself can make the cheating stop. He/she has to want to stop. On the other hand the partner does not have to put up with being treated like that.

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 15:28:09 +0000

I, for one, believe that you cannot really stop a man from cheating. He is either a cheater or he isn’t, and trying to control whether he does or he doesn’t will drive a woman CRAZY!

By: SageMother

SageMother — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 20:43:18 +0000

Did anyone hear about the study that may have located the gene that creates the propensity to cheat?