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That is completely sad. However, it is one way to know, and better a bit of pain now than a world-rocking pain later.
It really irks me how grown sometimes seem to have a one track mind, it’s all about sex, what about the years of dedication and support from wife and family.
Do you believe that there may be something in the way men are raised that leads to this behavior?
You know what, his wife should have been listening to the radio too because this would set him straight. He would be in much more hot water. I am sure the next time he cheats he would be even more careful with it.
mollyL, well, someone definitely didn’t get off laughing after what’s supposed to be a joke blew up in his face.
SageMother, I’m not sure if it’s just men who are pre-dispositioned to cheat on their partners.
Survey says that the number of women cheating on their partners are going to overtake the men.
I think this is all dependent on how we are raised and the values that we pick up from parents based on their relationship.
Dont you think?
I don’t think that cheating is just a male thing. I think we all have the potential to cheat. Whether we do depends in part on opportunity, belief systems, family values and example.
Liza, I hope she was also listening! If she wasn’t and I was the “other” woman, I would have called the radio station and asked for a tape of the transcript. I would then fedex her the darn thing!
This is just sad, but it just goes to show how men can be so sneaky and girlfriend (and wives) can be so blindly trusting.
I’m not sure it is fair to label the other partner as blindly trusting. In a relationship it is normal to be trusting, that is one of the foundations of a relationship.
SageMother, I’m not sure if it’s just men who are pre-dispositioned to cheat on their partners.
“Survey says that the number of women cheating on their partners are going to overtake the men.
I think this is all dependent on how we are raised and the values that we pick up from parents based on their relationship.
Dont you think?”
I think surveys are accurately reflecting women’s no longer being dependent on men, which is necessary for traditional marriage.
Parental values should have little influence on an adult who feels comfortable exercising their personal freedom. It is how that adult feels about themselves that is most important.
Never go for free things in this world. There is really a catch to everything in this world as there is definitely no free lunches out there. Serve Craig right on this one!
SageMother, I think you are right the parental values are secondary to how comfortable the adult feels with him/herself.
“It really irks me how grown sometimes seem to have a one track mind, it’s all about sex, what about the years of dedication and support from wife and family.”
Liza….
This what nature intended. I see little evidence that nature intended for men to settle down with a wife and children, then stop seeking other partners. Testosterone is the fuel that creates that “wander lust”.
With this in mind, we have religious and social structures that prevent women from taking the leadership roles that nature intended for them, and didn’t intend for the testosterone bathed brain.
You have every right and reason to be upset by this imbalance, but there are people working to change it.
His wife knew about this by the end of the day…..you can count on it. Somebody heard this on the radio and passed it along to someone that she does know.
The liar! He was still trying to cover his tracks once he was busted.
Although statistics use to say that men cheat more, I think those statistics are changing (unfortunately) and are reflecting that a lot of women also cheat.
I’ve seen those statistics about men cheating more, but it doesn’t make much sense to me because they with someone, so women must be involved somewhere.
SageMother, I don’t think it’s just “rules” that need to be changed.
Women and men are just pre-dispositioned to react differently.
What do they say again…. “Men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love”?