Comments on: Cheaters, Affairs, Infidelity And What Do About Them

By: deltic

deltic — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 07:27:04 +0000

Justontime, I agree with you, it takes two to want to work it out and you can’t keep going back over what happened.

By: berlinlife06

berlinlife06 — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 00:48:53 +0000

My girlfriend told me once: if you are having an affair, I don’t want to know. I don’t think I’ll be able to forgive you. I never cheated on her, and I don’t think I will, simply because I’m crazy about her. But I told her that I needed to know if something happen. I don’t think I can take it!

By: justontime

justontime — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 21:47:54 +0000

It takes two to genuinely work on the problems in a relationship. It is only worth staying if you both feel that you can move on from what happened, you can’t dig it up again every time you have a disagreement.

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 15:33:39 +0000

I totally agree with you. If you are going to stay, forgive the cheater and work on the problems in your relationship. If you cannot forgive, then leave. I’ve been there.