Comments on: Dirty Little Secrets Of Cheating Spouses

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 04:10:40 +0000

Justontime, part of the reason why separation is so hard because of the way money is tied in with the relationship.

By: berlinlife06

berlinlife06 — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 20:54:18 +0000

Once I heard a line on a TV show, that make me think of what a friend told me when she was having an affair. “A good lie is like a little black dress: it should be short, classic, elegant, unforgettable”. So, I guess the good cheaters know this principle. Me, I don’t think I can do it!

By: Liza

Liza — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 12:29:39 +0000

I know quite a few that actually stays with the cheating spouse, in one case, even takes care of the child born out of that affair.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 23:18:03 +0000

Tater03, my husband and I budget in a way that he gets his own spending money and I get my own after the rest is deposited in the bank.

What we do with our own allotted money is up to us. For most part, I just save mine in a bank account. He does the same thing also.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 23:14:43 +0000

SageMother, statistics even say that when a man decides to divorce his wife in favor for the “other lady”, ex-wives are still financially dependent on their exes.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 17:58:07 +0000

tater03, exactly. The goonies in my head will seriously go on overdrive mode if I have to keep an eye on my man all the time!

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 17:57:14 +0000

mollyL, a person’s mind is so complex that we can never really understand why some would put up with someone that constantly hurts them.

Granted, the other partner might have some seriously emotional issues, but I think they should try to get some professional help instead of hopping into another person’s bed.

By: Justontime

Justontime — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 18:36:32 +0000

I have to agree with SageMother, it can be very scary to make the break if you do not have sufficient financial resources, especially if there are children to consider as well.

By: tater03

tater03 — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 00:30:29 +0000

Sadly Sagemother I really think that you have a good point here. I have always tried to keep my independence when it comes to making money in a relationship. I don’t ever want to feel that I have to stay with someone do to financial reasons.

By: SageMother

SageMother — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 23:36:43 +0000

I bet the rate at which marriages “survive” adultery, on the husband’s part, is directly related to how much money the wife can make on her own.