Comments on: Think Only Politicians Cheat On Their Spouses? Think Again, Says Top San Francisco Bay Area Private Investigator

By: Taggart

Taggart — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:42:43 +0000

I agree with mollyL. A friend of mine is currently trying to hold her own ground planning her wedding with some interference from her future mother-in-law.

Fortunately in her case, I think she has a fine monogamous relationship with her fiance.

By: justontime

justontime — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 12:27:52 +0000

heretoday, my grandma used to say ’sorry is what sorry does’ there is a lot of truth in that. Words are cheap, but a persons actions will show if they are sorry or not.

By: mollyL

mollyL — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 07:01:27 +0000

Well, I think that sometimes the big weddings seem more like business mergers rather than affairs of the heart. Like two powerful families forming a new corporation.

By: heretoday

heretoday — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 06:38:09 +0000

Looking back on what trick-r-treat wrote at the start of the discussion, I agree that it really cheeses me off when some bigheaded bigshot “apologizes” when he isn’t remotely sorry for what he said. He’s just sorry he got caught!

By: Taggart

Taggart — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 13:50:08 +0000

The above article makes a very realistic point. I think most of us know of acquaintances who’ve cheated on their partners.

I also get tired of the sensationalizing of some of the politician’s affairs.

By: justontime

justontime — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 20:17:36 +0000

I think cheating has always happened and probably always will. We hear more about that than the many secure and happy couples because bad news makes better headlines.

By: chris1203

chris1203 — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 15:16:15 +0000

It is sad that so many spouses cheat, but one that maybe is inevitable in some respects…given the strong lure of new excitements with new partners.

By: Justontime

Justontime — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 18:38:10 +0000

I think if someone has reached the point of calling a private detective and paying a significant sum to check up on their partner, they must have strong grounds for suspicion. I am not surprised that Chris Butler says that most people who turn to his agency find that their suspicions were correct.

By: mollyL

mollyL — Sat, 24 May 2008 16:19:40 +0000

I agree, Green. I would be well out of a relationship before it got to that stage. There has to be trust and respect, or else it’s not a viable relationship.

By: Green-Moo

Green-Moo — Thu, 22 May 2008 07:32:04 +0000

I agree Imaginary Diva, and let’s not forget men too. However, I think that if you respect your partner you can supress the urge to follow up on those feelings.