Comments on: Would You Like Proof That Your Spouse Is Cheating? Now You Can! http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Mon, 05 Jul 2010 10:48:39 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6972 Imaginary Diva Wed, 25 Jun 2008 04:41:53 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6972 Green-Moo, isn't it all just about double standards. This is probably where the relationship goes wrong in the beginning. Green-Moo, isn’t it all just about double standards. This is probably where the relationship goes wrong in the beginning.

]]> By: Green-Moo http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6629 Green-Moo Thu, 22 May 2008 07:36:00 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6629 I'm wondering whether we are practicing double standards here? Here, we're discussion how your partner spying on you could be considered to be grounds to leave. Yet on other threads there's support for the idea of 'checking up' on your partner. So how come it's OK for you to do it to him, but it's not OK when the tables are turned? I’m wondering whether we are practicing double standards here? Here, we’re discussion how your partner spying on you could be considered to be grounds to leave. Yet on other threads there’s support for the idea of ‘checking up’ on your partner. So how come it’s OK for you to do it to him, but it’s not OK when the tables are turned?

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6399 Imaginary Diva Tue, 06 May 2008 19:53:14 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6399 Green-Moo, sometimes it does need to have a third party interpret what's going on. Green-Moo, sometimes it does need to have a third party interpret what’s going on.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6363 Imaginary Diva Mon, 05 May 2008 19:04:44 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6363 Green-Moo, so if you are not doing anything out of the ordinary and you find out your man is spying on you, I'd say don't even hesitate to leave because the least of your worries is whether he thinks you are cheating or not. He's turned out something of a psycho and god knows what else he'll end up doing! Green-Moo, so if you are not doing anything out of the ordinary and you find out your man is spying on you, I’d say don’t even hesitate to leave because the least of your worries is whether he thinks you are cheating or not.

He’s turned out something of a psycho and god knows what else he’ll end up doing!

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6362 Imaginary Diva Mon, 05 May 2008 19:02:30 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6362 SageMother, I think being mad and hating someone can be actually beneficial to our personal growth as a human being. I remember the times when I was so mad that I knew I had to do much more fun and exciting things to make him feel that I've done something with my life after he left. In the end, it really did make my life feel better. SageMother, I think being mad and hating someone can be actually beneficial to our personal growth as a human being. I remember the times when I was so mad that I knew I had to do much more fun and exciting things to make him feel that I’ve done something with my life after he left. In the end, it really did make my life feel better.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6361 Imaginary Diva Mon, 05 May 2008 19:01:05 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6361 SageMother, we all have our ways of dealing with hurt and it will need to be played out whether we take the more accepted road or the other. SageMother, we all have our ways of dealing with hurt and it will need to be played out whether we take the more accepted road or the other.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6299 Imaginary Diva Wed, 30 Apr 2008 22:54:31 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6299 Calypso, oh, I'm sure your hubby is comforted with the knowledge of having a forever kind of relationship. And I'm sure women who are in a position of having stable relationships don't have spouses that spy on them. Calypso, oh, I’m sure your hubby is comforted with the knowledge of having a forever kind of relationship. And I’m sure women who are in a position of having stable relationships don’t have spouses that spy on them.

]]> By: Green-Moo http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6238 Green-Moo Tue, 29 Apr 2008 16:21:59 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6238 Hmmm ... you have a point there Imaginary Diva. Sometimes you can be so close to a problem that you just can't see it yourself. Hmmm … you have a point there Imaginary Diva. Sometimes you can be so close to a problem that you just can’t see it yourself.

]]> By: Imaginary Diva http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6200 Imaginary Diva Mon, 28 Apr 2008 20:00:16 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6200 Green-Moo, it never does. But for some perverse reason, I do find it entertaining sometimes looking in as a third party. You can really see the problem even if the two people involved don't. Green-Moo, it never does.

But for some perverse reason, I do find it entertaining sometimes looking in as a third party. You can really see the problem even if the two people involved don’t.

]]> By: Green-Moo http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html/comment-page-1#comment-6143 Green-Moo Sat, 26 Apr 2008 13:23:25 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/would-you-like-proof-that-your-spouse-is-cheating-now-you-can.html#comment-6143 Calypso, I think you are right. I would view spying as an invasion of my privacy and a breakdown in trust, either of which would make me question whether i wanted to continue a relationship with the spy irrespective of whether I was guilty of cheating. Calypso, I think you are right. I would view spying as an invasion of my privacy and a breakdown in trust, either of which would make me question whether i wanted to continue a relationship with the spy irrespective of whether I was guilty of cheating.

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