Comments on: Homewrecker http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html Real Cheating and Infidelity - Stories and Advice Tue, 07 Feb 2012 00:32:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: tricia http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-363342 tricia Mon, 21 Nov 2011 23:27:57 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-363342 Indeedo and Ady, it's funny how you come to the topic from different perspectives but you both end up with the same opinion that home wreckers need to be outed. I couldn't agree more. The women who come after another woman's husband and interfere in her life need to be named out loud and in public. The home wreckers rely on secrecy to protect them from scrutiny and blame. If they are willing to use their name to do their dirty deed with another woman's husband, they should be willing to accept the scorn and disdain that comes with their trashy behavior. So, yes, they need to be named so other men and women can see them coming. Indeedo and Ady, it’s funny how you come to the topic from different perspectives but you both end up with the same opinion that home wreckers need to be outed. I couldn’t agree more. The women who come after another woman’s husband and interfere in her life need to be named out loud and in public. The home wreckers rely on secrecy to protect them from scrutiny and blame. If they are willing to use their name to do their dirty deed with another woman’s husband, they should be willing to accept the scorn and disdain that comes with their trashy behavior. So, yes, they need to be named so other men and women can see them coming.

]]> By: Ady http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-363191 Ady Fri, 04 Nov 2011 17:13:42 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-363191 Now what i am about to say is going to get me a lot of abuse, comments about karma etc etc... I am one of those bastards that cheated on his partner with a younger woman. My relationship had run its course but i remained at home for the love of my child. I was having a affair with a woman from Birmingham who works at the Forest of Arden Hotel, Meriden, Birmingham, UK (although may now live in London). This woman, Emma, begged and pleaded with me for 2 years to leave my home so that we could be together. She would cry wishing we were together. In March this year she phoned me in tears asking to come and see me, In April she asked are we still going to live together and get married. In May I left my partner for Emma who then immediately ended it with me. No reason, no warning she just said 'Deep down I still want it but it cant happen." So yes i got my Karma in full affect. Now single and living alone and only seeing my beautiful daughter twice a week. What about Emma, well she phoned the police on me as i asked her numerous times via email and sms why she did it. She, in September, moved out of her parents home and into a new flat. Recently on the grapevine i have heard that she may now be living in London. Talk about now shame, no guilt. This is a homewrekcer....what i did was wrong what she did feels almost preplanned!! Emma loved my daughter lots and bought her pressies, cuddled her, gave her kisses. I allowed Emma into my daughters life.....for what!! Deeply distraught about it all and now on medication for stress and depression. My partner does not know to this day although always had suspicions. I couldn't tell her the truth as she is already being very dictatory with custody over our girl. SO YES Homewreckers need to be outed!!! Now what i am about to say is going to get me a lot of abuse, comments about karma etc etc…

I am one of those bastards that cheated on his partner with a younger woman. My relationship had run its course but i remained at home for the love of my child.

I was having a affair with a woman from Birmingham who works at the Forest of Arden Hotel, Meriden, Birmingham, UK (although may now live in London). This woman, Emma, begged and pleaded with me for 2 years to leave my home so that we could be together. She would cry wishing we were together.

In March this year she phoned me in tears asking to come and see me, In April she asked are we still going to live together and get married. In May I left my partner for Emma who then immediately ended it with me. No reason, no warning she just said ‘Deep down I still want it but it cant happen.”

So yes i got my Karma in full affect. Now single and living alone and only seeing my beautiful daughter twice a week.

What about Emma, well she phoned the police on me as i asked her numerous times via email and sms why she did it.

She, in September, moved out of her parents home and into a new flat. Recently on the grapevine i have heard that she may now be living in London. Talk about now shame, no guilt. This is a homewrekcer….what i did was wrong what she did feels almost preplanned!!
Emma loved my daughter lots and bought her pressies, cuddled her, gave her kisses. I allowed Emma into my daughters life…..for what!!

Deeply distraught about it all and now on medication for stress and depression. My partner does not know to this day although always had suspicions. I couldn’t tell her the truth as she is already being very dictatory with custody over our girl.

SO YES Homewreckers need to be outed!!!

]]> By: Indeedo http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-35675 Indeedo Fri, 21 Oct 2011 19:08:10 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-35675 Yep, blame him and the other woman or women in my case. He had three at the same time. He is definitely to blame especially when he wants to pound the issue that you are to blame because of other issues. Well if the issues were that bad, then he should have left the marriage before going out pounding the other women, right Simonia and Tawani? Those are the other women in my circle who could be classified as homewreckers along with him, right honey? And they had the audacity to beg him and tell him to leave his family and guess what? I was going through the time of my life...recently diagnosed with breast cancer and he wasn't there for me when I needed him most but he was sure to make time to be with them. But now, I'm stronger and he is free to pursue and leave now and they don't have to beg anymore. Guess what ladies...don't be afraid to deal with it and move on. So am I pissed at him, absolutely because his loyalty was suppose to be at home with us but it was not, it was with them. Is he responsible, absolutely because he made the choice to go with them as he could have made the choice to stay his ass at home. Whoever has the affair makes the choice just as those who participate. Isn't it funny though when the other woman wants to remain a secret when the wife finds out about it? It was good when they were sneaking but when it starts to seep out in public, the wives are crazy? Wives, they need to be outed along with the husbands since they both were sneaking, right girl? How long will it take for this one to be forwarded? Yep, blame him and the other woman or women in my case. He had three at the same time. He is definitely to blame especially when he wants to pound the issue that you are to blame because of other issues. Well if the issues were that bad, then he should have left the marriage before going out pounding the other women, right Simonia and Tawani? Those are the other women in my circle who could be classified as homewreckers along with him, right honey? And they had the audacity to beg him and tell him to leave his family and guess what? I was going through the time of my life…recently diagnosed with breast cancer and he wasn’t there for me when I needed him most but he was sure to make time to be with them. But now, I’m stronger and he is free to pursue and leave now and they don’t have to beg anymore. Guess what ladies…don’t be afraid to deal with it and move on. So am I pissed at him, absolutely because his loyalty was suppose to be at home with us but it was not, it was with them. Is he responsible, absolutely because he made the choice to go with them as he could have made the choice to stay his ass at home. Whoever has the affair makes the choice just as those who participate. Isn’t it funny though when the other woman wants to remain a secret when the wife finds out about it? It was good when they were sneaking but when it starts to seep out in public, the wives are crazy? Wives, they need to be outed along with the husbands since they both were sneaking, right girl? How long will it take for this one to be forwarded?

]]> By: stav http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-259787 stav Thu, 14 Jul 2011 10:11:05 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-259787 Debbie, what a terrible situation. You are as much a victim as this poor woman is. Perhaps you could write her an email.. explain how you came to be involved, and that as soon as you found out he was married you ditched him. That you understand how hurt she is, but that you cannot tolerate any more of her behaviour and you will have to press charges if she doesn't now stop. Debbie, what a terrible situation. You are as much a victim as this poor woman is.

Perhaps you could write her an email.. explain how you came to be involved, and that as soon as you found out he was married you ditched him. That you understand how hurt she is, but that you cannot tolerate any more of her behaviour and you will have to press charges if she doesn’t now stop.

]]> By: mugs http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-264936 mugs Sat, 09 Jul 2011 15:22:41 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-264936 Women who come after married men are the scum of the earth. I'm not letting the husbands off, but the women who come after married men are trash in the gutter and need to be outed by name on websites and to their husbands, boyfriends, parents, siblings, co workers, neighbors, anyone who will listen. Women who come after married men are the scum of the earth. I’m not letting the husbands off, but the women who come after married men are trash in the gutter and need to be outed by name on websites and to their husbands, boyfriends, parents, siblings, co workers, neighbors, anyone who will listen.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-259716 justontime Fri, 08 Jul 2011 19:36:02 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-259716 Debbie, that sounds like a horrible situation. This may be very simplistic but have you tried to apologise to her and explain that you didn't know he was still married. It really does sound as if this woman is in a very dark place, but judging by what you wrote you probably need some advice about getting a restraining order. Debbie, that sounds like a horrible situation. This may be very simplistic but have you tried to apologise to her and explain that you didn’t know he was still married. It really does sound as if this woman is in a very dark place, but judging by what you wrote you probably need some advice about getting a restraining order.

]]> By: justontime http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-259713 justontime Wed, 06 Jul 2011 16:16:30 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-259713 Me, I think your post makes a lot of sense. You are right life is too short to be unhappy and too short to be bitter about things that are past. Me, I think your post makes a lot of sense. You are right life is too short to be unhappy and too short to be bitter about things that are past.

]]> By: OK http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-294503 OK Tue, 28 Jun 2011 18:36:07 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-294503 Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of

]]> By: mugs http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-293590 mugs Sun, 26 Jun 2011 19:30:52 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-293590 Me, i know what you mean on the trusting issue and I agree that to ever trust again is going to be a very difficult if not impossible thing to do. On the other hand, I do believe that the women who come after other women's husbands do pay a price in the end for their poor behavior. It's clear that attitudes have changed over the last years and that individually and collectively these women are scorned and belittled by the general population. Many of us who have experienced women coming after our husbands have fought back publicly by naming the woman and advertising her attempts to steal our family life. I figure if she was willing to use her real name and email address in attempts to get my husband in the sack (failed!) then I am entitled to use her name to pay her back. And that I have done with glee. Me, i know what you mean on the trusting issue and I agree that to ever trust again is going to be a very difficult if not impossible thing to do. On the other hand, I do believe that the women who come after other women’s husbands do pay a price in the end for their poor behavior. It’s clear that attitudes have changed over the last years and that individually and collectively these women are scorned and belittled by the general population. Many of us who have experienced women coming after our husbands have fought back publicly by naming the woman and advertising her attempts to steal our family life. I figure if she was willing to use her real name and email address in attempts to get my husband in the sack (failed!) then I am entitled to use her name to pay her back. And that I have done with glee.

]]> By: Me http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html/comment-page-4#comment-151704 Me Sat, 26 Mar 2011 17:45:07 +0000 http://www.idcheaters.com/2008/03/homewrecker.html#comment-151704 This whole posting, and the experiences I've had myself makes me feel and almost believe, that there is no such thing as true love anymore...It completely breaks my heart...how can anyone on here..including myself ever trust anyone ever again. Even if someone who comes along who truly does...will we ever know? Especially if the one we thought did turn out to be a snake in the grass and I mean male OR female. It would be so satisfying to know that all who hurt others get the karma they deserve..but at who's expense...I believe all on here who have been hurt by someone will find something again...but those who have hurt intentionally and willfully (and they know who they are)will never every be truly happy...real love and trusting love is hard to find but it is truly worth the wait no matter how hard.. women who are married to these men who cheat (and vice versa in all fairness to the men)...who believe the other woman (or man) is the cause of it are understandably hurt...but they also have to look at the other side of it even if it hurts. A lot of men today Know that the other woman always gets blamed. They take advantage of it and the other woman. There are also the other women who intentionally go after the married men for reasons unknown to me. The saying fool me once shame on you, fool me twice same on you comes to mind. There would be a no third time. Life is way too short to be so unhappy poor or rich smart or not so smart...we all deserve love and happiness...it is the best thing ever in the world...don't waste energy or life in an untrusting unloving relationship. Every single one of us deserves better. This whole posting, and the experiences I’ve had myself makes me feel and almost believe, that there is no such thing as true love anymore…It completely breaks my heart…how can anyone on here..including myself ever trust anyone ever again. Even if someone who comes along who truly does…will we ever know? Especially if the one we thought did turn out to be a snake in the grass and I mean male OR female.

It would be so satisfying to know that all who hurt others get the karma they deserve..but at who’s expense…I believe all on here who have been hurt by someone will find something again…but those who have hurt intentionally and willfully (and they know who they are)will never every be truly happy…real love and trusting love is hard to find but it is truly worth the wait no matter how hard.. women who are married to these men who cheat (and vice versa in all fairness to the men)…who believe the other woman (or man) is the cause of it are understandably hurt…but they also have to look at the other side of it even if it hurts. A lot of men today Know that the other woman always gets blamed. They take advantage of it and the other woman. There are also the other women who intentionally go after the married men for reasons unknown to me. The saying fool me once shame on you, fool me twice same on you comes to mind. There would be a no third time. Life is way too short to be so unhappy poor or rich smart or not so smart…we all deserve love and happiness…it is the best thing ever in the world…don’t waste energy or life in an untrusting unloving relationship. Every single one of us deserves better.

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